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User - oioi
User Name Description
Looking for help for ex partners of child molesters. Visited "healing wives" but could not find what I was looking for. Looking for an on-line support group.
User Profile
| Gender | Female |
| Age Bracket | 30 - 39 |
| State | New York |
| Country | United States |
Miscellaneous
| Current Status | Not Logged In |
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| Forum Posts | 111 |
| Forum Threads Started | 10 |
| News Archive Submissions | 0 |
User Bio
About a year ago I left my partner of 9 years when I learned of his plan to molest a neighborhood child. I later learned that he had another intended victim in the neighborhood where we used to live.
I haven't even tried to get help for myself until now. The shame is tearing me apart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust again. My belief in myself as a woman and as worthy of any kind of emotionally or physically intimate relationship is shattered.
I never had any evidence that my ex did, in fact victimize a child, although I did make the police aware of my ex' s new "friend", a repeat offender against children, who began hanging around the neighborhood. I later learned that the neighbors were putting pressure on my ex. I hope their vigilance continues. I have no more contact with my ex and never want to. I hope he doesn't hurt anyone but I have no control over that. I feel sick and disgusted over everthing. This has put poison into my life. I can't imagine what victims and their families must go through. I think everyday of all the poor kids who are abused by people like my ex, who I once believed to be an honorable person.
If it wasn't for my supportive mother and father, I couldn't go on. I have told my mother about the nature of the situation. But if my father found out I'd be very sad.
I know that all men are not like my ex (my father wasn't, fortunately for me). Fortunately also, my ex and I had no children and he has no children. At least I don't have to worry about any child of mine being abused. I doubt I can ever have an intimate relationship again. I can't imagine how it must be for a victim to have to grow up and deal with these issues. As it is for me, I feel so isolated. I hope someone on this forum can offer a few words of advice for a ruined woman.
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