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Thread (Discussion): Proposal for determing guest access to The Other Side

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Message 167079 (In Reply to Message 166978)

Posted by dp1 on Nov 10, 2005 04:38 PM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

So what are the offenders having problems with on the other side?

If Rabbit, Orolan and I don't know what the problems are why are we assuming there's a problem requiring this change? If there are other people on the other side who think there's a problem then where are these phantom RSOs?

I don't get proposing a change without stating the problem. How can we evaluate the possible effectiveness of it? We see how it will cause participation to decline. Is the problem too many RSOs? It must be since there aren't any here telling us there's a problem. I'm confused still.

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Message 166978

Posted by dp1 on Nov 09, 2005 04:55 AM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">I assume you'll adopt this same voting procedure for Victims & Survivors?</span></blockquote>

That's an interesting point because I was thinking this procedure is needed more on the victim's side rather than on the other side IMO. I'm still struggling with the need to do anything with the other side. Do you guys even care who posts there as long as the posts are constructive? Minus a few offensive comments in the other side that were handled immediately and resolved, I'm not aware of any nagging issues other than the fear an Anti may post and disrupt the conversation. If someone can share with us what the issues are we may  be better able to truly assess the need for such an eleaborate procedure. Most of the discussions about who should post where have been in reference to the victim's forum. I'm not clear on why there's an assumption that the other side needs fixing when in fact it seems to function rather well. There's a strong bond on the offender side and they seem so open to discussion with various people which is totally opposite from the victim's forum. Offenders like to bring up topics, legal issues, discuss situations, etc.. whereas the victims are talking about personal feelings so they are far more vulnerable and require more scrutinized posts, rightfully so.

So what are the offenders having problems with on the other side? The only problem I've seen just a couple of times is that a regular non-RSO poster posted and slammed an offender, but I confronted them and it was over. Is this entire forum being shuffled around simply because of one or two incidents or because the victim's forum is struggling? Either way, I would like to know what the needs are if for no other reason than to explain it to the other RSOs so they can comment intelligently after knowing the facts.

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166878, steve, Nov 08, 2005 04:25 AM
      166880, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 04:52 AM
            166882, steve, Nov 08, 2005 05:00 AM
                  166887, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 05:14 AM
                        166906, steve, Nov 08, 2005 02:25 PM
                              166911, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 03:08 PM
                                    166937, steve, Nov 08, 2005 07:47 PM
                                          167083, dp1, Nov 10, 2005 05:02 PM
                              167286, poetsdreamscape, Nov 15, 2005 02:01 AM [hog wash]
      166891, Scaye, Nov 08, 2005 05:31 AM
            166912, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 03:29 PM
                  166977, amberleaf, Nov 09, 2005 04:45 AM
                        167076, dp1, Nov 10, 2005 04:27 PM
      166916, rabbitreborn, Nov 08, 2005 04:31 PM
            166983, dp1, Nov 09, 2005 02:30 PM
      166917, orolan, Nov 08, 2005 04:56 PM
            166938, steve, Nov 08, 2005 07:52 PM
                  167035, orolan, Nov 10, 2005 02:23 AM
                        167074, dp1, Nov 10, 2005 04:03 PM
                              167269, rabbitreborn, Nov 14, 2005 02:02 PM
            166948, rabbitreborn, Nov 08, 2005 08:38 PM
            166978, dp1, Nov 09, 2005 04:55 AM
                  167068, rabbitreborn, Nov 10, 2005 02:28 PM
                        167073, dp1, Nov 10, 2005 03:52 PM
                        167141, rodsmith, Nov 11, 2005 03:33 PM
                        167148, amberleaf, Nov 11, 2005 08:48 PM [Steve]
                              167273, dp1, Nov 14, 2005 02:20 PM
                  167079, dp1, Nov 10, 2005 04:38 PM
                        167156, orolan, Nov 11, 2005 10:29 PM
                        167235, amberleaf, Nov 12, 2005 11:59 PM
      166958, Rejected
            167033, Rejected
            167061, Rejected
      167092, Renunciation, Nov 10, 2005 05:37 PM
            167155, orolan, Nov 11, 2005 10:25 PM
                  167267, rebel51, Nov 14, 2005 12:15 PM
                        167312, rabbitreborn, Nov 15, 2005 02:09 PM
            167218, Rejected
                  167339, Rejected
            167271, dp1, Nov 14, 2005 02:06 PM [Renny]
                  167360, Renunciation, Nov 15, 2005 05:51 PM
                        167375, PVulcan, Nov 15, 2005 10:25 PM
                        167380, dp1, Nov 15, 2005 10:53 PM [Rensterama]
                        167381, orolan, Nov 15, 2005 11:17 PM
      167230, Rejected
      167820, orolan, Nov 22, 2005 05:01 PM [Response to "Real Life Story"]
            167859, rabbitreborn, Nov 22, 2005 09:13 PM
                  167904, orolan, Nov 23, 2005 04:24 AM
                        168216, steve, Nov 29, 2005 06:38 PM
                              168248, rabbitreborn, Nov 29, 2005 10:25 PM
                                    168334, steve, Dec 01, 2005 01:25 AM
                                          168369, rabbitreborn, Dec 01, 2005 02:40 PM
                              168376, dp1, Dec 01, 2005 03:44 PM
                                    168484, orolan, Dec 03, 2005 02:21 AM
            167899, amberleaf, Nov 23, 2005 01:55 AM
                  167938, orolan, Nov 24, 2005 02:56 AM
                        168002, amberleaf, Nov 25, 2005 08:36 AM
                              168051, orolan, Nov 26, 2005 02:18 AM
                        168133, rabbitreborn, Nov 28, 2005 02:21 PM
                              168206, dp1, Nov 29, 2005 02:26 PM
                                    168278, Rejected

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