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Message 167188 (In Reply to Message 161390)

Posted by rodsmith on Nov 12, 2005 06:21 AM | Also by rodsmith

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Florida, Country: United States

well dp1 sorry homeless rso's seem to push your buttons..but if the govt.. would stop changing the rules once a week...maybe there would be less of them.....have you seen the headlines from ohio where LE is bragging about arrest 800+ RSO's who's primary crime was to not be able to pay some kind of illegal fee or forgot to sign one of the many forms they are given... i hope they are all proud of themselves....just better enjoy it while they can....sooner or later this willl get back to the supreme court and then they can wave bye-bye to their fun.....and i base that on the examples used by the justices themselves during the original case when they decided that megan's law's were just information and not punishement..but one of the examples they used to use what would be punishement was that if people on the regeistry were required to report in peron or to pay a fee then they would be considered still under modified probation or parole and that would be punishment....don't know what's changed in the 10 years since then to think the govt can go back and add the verry thing the supreme court said would make it a punishment and think it will fly...unless of course Emperor Bush manages to pack the court with yes men.

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Message 161390
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Posted by dp1 on Sep 13, 2005 03:38 PM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">its very hard the way it is, as I have been reading over the board for a few days now, and actually 2 pppl I know, victims went here, browsing, and felt they would feel uneasy, and I do not blame them I am not taking sides here, as I am truly being very open minded here, if a sections is for rso, then how about only rso go there? the victims center, only for victims?</span></blockquote>

Although you have a point regarding mutual respect for both sides, I believe the needs of RSOs and victims are somewhat different. For example, the last thing a victim may want to do is post to a RSO in a forum. I can understand that totally. However, a RSO's needs may be different. He might be struggling to find a place to live or having a hard time with his parole officer. As a non-RSO if I can add something in a constructive manner to help make sense of a stressful situation I would do so. Ditto with the victims who are new to the criminal justice system and may need information. I personally don't make a distinction between whether I'm in the mood to help a RSO or a victim. If I can add something then I do. Anti with your experience I believe you can do an awesome job contributing to the victims corner. I would love to contribute more to the victims side, but my experiences are very limited. Obviously, my experiences are more suited on the RSO side. This does not mean I am a RSO supporter or pedo-lover. This means that I support people if and when I can. That's all.

There are days I get extremely fed up with RSOs, particularly if I've been dealing with victim issues at work. Another trigger for me is homeless RSOs. I can't count the RSOs I'd love to shoot. Also, I know some of my posts might reflect that frustration. Surely, if anyone did research on my posting history they'd be able to find even what I would describe as hateful posts towards RSOs. I believe the RSOs know me well enough now that if I do come out with a horrendous post or appear to lash out it's probably because I'm in a PMS mode or fed up with some sex offender at work. To be honest Anti, it amazes me how sometimes I'll get a PM from a RSO asking how I'm doing and if everything's alright. I suppose it's the mutual respect and empathy that make things click. Do you hear what I am saying? It's not easy to deal with RSOs. The hate for sexual abuse never goes away. 24/7 I have to remind myself it's not the person I hate it's the behavior. I'm not a super hero with complete control over my thoughts and actions 24/7. I feel badly when I lash out. I know it's not nice, and I do appreciate particularly the RSOs that can empathize with my position. Make sense?

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                        161100, anti, Sep 10, 2005 05:55 AM [oh my ohh my!!]
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