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Forum: Site Goals and Ideas
Thread (Discussion): A question, for ALL...
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Message 161050 (In Reply to Message 160966)
Posted by rabbitreborn
on Sep 09, 2005 02:51 PM | Also by rabbitreborn
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: Florida,
Country: United States |
Your theory works well , until you consider someone like myself that was a victim long before I was a RSO. Does the fact I am a RSO automatically bar me from sharing my views and input with other victims? I have refrained (by choice and quasi promise) from posting very much in the victim's forum, but many of those that have (that are RSO's) are able to offer advise and assistance to the real victims that have real issues. Should they not be allowed to dispence that advice or support just because they are a RSO?
Most of those that have been on the board for years (such as Orolan or Silver) are more than willing to help wherever they see a true victim. Agreed, sometimes their method for determining a true victim may be harsh, but it works, and that's what really matters. Take for example the recent posts by "kessa" in which she played numbers games with her age and spoke of "discovering" a crime was committed against her 20 years after the fact. Orolan's request for clarification of her "discovery" was, in my opinion (and aparantly quite a few others as well), quite a legitimate thing to ask. How else could he direct her to the correct information that would be relevant to her situtation? And yet he was attacked by another poster as if he had intentionally ran the person off just for the fun of it. Was "kessa" a legitimate "victim"? We'll probably never know for certain, but the holes in her story would lead one (at least me) to feel she wasn't.
Bottom line...... as the old saying goes......
If it's not broke, don't fix it.
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Message 160966
a question...
Posted by anti
on Sep 08, 2005 05:22 PM | Also by anti
| Gender: N/A,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
Thread
160966, anti, Sep 08, 2005 05:22 PM [a question...]
161050, rabbitreborn, Sep 09, 2005 02:51 PM
161058, anti, Sep 09, 2005 03:47 PM [see?]
161097, Navigatr1, Sep 10, 2005 04:42 AM
161100, anti, Sep 10, 2005 05:55 AM [oh my ohh my!!]
161176, Navigatr1, Sep 11, 2005 02:11 PM [anti]
161243, anti, Sep 11, 2005 06:55 PM [to nav..]
161399, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 04:42 PM
161430, rabbitreborn, Sep 13, 2005 10:37 PM
161481, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 01:41 PM
161524, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 03:46 PM
161526, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 03:52 PM
161533, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 04:09 PM
161534, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 04:17 PM
161588, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 09:00 PM
161601, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 11:42 PM
161660, Navigatr1, Sep 15, 2005 05:05 PM
161689, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 15, 2005 09:51 PM
161692, rabbitreborn, Sep 15, 2005 10:32 PM
161696, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 15, 2005 10:54 PM
161479, dp1, Sep 14, 2005 01:31 PM [momhelpingbyherself]
161482, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 01:45 PM
161528, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 03:58 PM
161536, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 04:19 PM
161567, anti, Sep 14, 2005 05:46 PM [ty]
161635, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 15, 2005 03:13 PM
161565, anti, Sep 14, 2005 05:44 PM [wowww]
161581, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 08:22 PM
161589, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 09:16 PM
161602, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 11:46 PM
161694, rabbitreborn, Sep 15, 2005 10:41 PM
161695, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 15, 2005 10:51 PM
166954, anti, Nov 08, 2005 09:37 PM [hate..]
161397, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 04:37 PM
161431, rabbitreborn, Sep 13, 2005 10:45 PM
161484, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 01:49 PM
161394, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 04:29 PM
161432, rabbitreborn, Sep 13, 2005 10:55 PM
161485, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 01:52 PM
161467, Navigatr1, Sep 14, 2005 04:58 AM
161569, anti, Sep 14, 2005 05:51 PM [thanks mom...]
161090, orolan, Sep 10, 2005 12:14 AM
161091, anti, Sep 10, 2005 03:50 AM [ok Orlan...]
161261, orolan, Sep 11, 2005 07:43 PM
161266, anti, Sep 11, 2005 08:20 PM [exactly...]
161335, orolan, Sep 12, 2005 05:42 PM
161360, anti, Sep 12, 2005 11:35 PM [wow]
161404, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 04:52 PM
161101, deadmomwalking, Sep 10, 2005 06:03 AM
161405, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 04:54 PM
161117, dp1, Sep 10, 2005 01:04 PM [Anti]
161120, PVulcan, Sep 10, 2005 04:48 PM
161130, dp1, Sep 10, 2005 07:44 PM
161407, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 04:57 PM
161433, dp1, Sep 13, 2005 11:05 PM [mom]
161486, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 01:54 PM
161455, steve, Sep 14, 2005 02:34 AM
161489, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 01:59 PM
161523, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:45 PM
161531, steve, Sep 14, 2005 04:00 PM
161123, deadmomwalking, Sep 10, 2005 05:22 PM
161131, dp1, Sep 10, 2005 07:56 PM [DMW]
161124, orolan, Sep 10, 2005 05:43 PM
161175, dp1, Sep 11, 2005 01:46 PM
161242, deadmomwalking, Sep 11, 2005 06:55 PM
161263, orolan, Sep 11, 2005 07:46 PM
161409, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 05:02 PM
161408, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 05:00 PM
161457, steve, Sep 14, 2005 02:43 AM
161468, Navigatr1, Sep 14, 2005 05:07 AM
161491, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 02:03 PM
161496, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 02:24 PM
161501, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 02:45 PM
161519, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:40 PM
161525, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 03:50 PM
161518, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:38 PM
161527, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 03:54 PM
161535, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 04:18 PM
161537, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 04:22 PM
161579, steve, Sep 14, 2005 08:05 PM
161583, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 08:27 PM
161593, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 09:27 PM
161637, Rejected
161513, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:26 PM
161134, orolan, Sep 10, 2005 08:17 PM
161153, 1dadof5, Sep 11, 2005 02:50 AM
161265, orolan, Sep 11, 2005 07:53 PM
161151, youtoo, Sep 11, 2005 02:02 AM
161577, steve, Sep 14, 2005 07:30 PM
161578, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 08:04 PM
161212, Renunciation, Sep 11, 2005 05:41 PM [Renunciation Rant]
161272, anti, Sep 12, 2005 12:30 AM [well...]
161314, joy1234, Sep 12, 2005 01:47 PM
161372, Navigatr1, Sep 13, 2005 04:29 AM [joy1234]
161383, dp1, Sep 13, 2005 01:17 PM
161521, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:42 PM
161410, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 05:08 PM
161478, joy1234, Sep 14, 2005 01:12 PM
161508, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 03:03 PM
161499, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 02:40 PM
161502, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 02:48 PM
161570, anti, Sep 14, 2005 05:59 PM [exactly..]
161595, rabbitreborn, Sep 14, 2005 09:35 PM
161603, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 11:49 PM
161634, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 15, 2005 03:09 PM
161678, Renunciation, Sep 15, 2005 07:07 PM
161690, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 15, 2005 09:58 PM
161348, Renunciation, Sep 12, 2005 07:59 PM
161411, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 13, 2005 05:11 PM
161459, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:49 AM
161469, dp1, Sep 14, 2005 05:16 AM [Steve]
161472, PVulcan, Sep 14, 2005 05:50 AM
161522, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:43 PM
161511, steve, Sep 14, 2005 03:22 PM
161547, PVulcan, Sep 14, 2005 04:57 PM
161548, PVulcan, Sep 14, 2005 05:10 PM
161587, steve, Sep 14, 2005 08:40 PM
161572, anti, Sep 14, 2005 06:06 PM [Steve,]
161582, steve, Sep 14, 2005 08:26 PM
161571, anti, Sep 14, 2005 06:03 PM [yes..]
161585, steve, Sep 14, 2005 08:36 PM
161337, orolan, Sep 12, 2005 05:44 PM
161371, Navigatr1, Sep 13, 2005 04:21 AM
161390, dp1, Sep 13, 2005 03:38 PM [Anti]
161395, Renunciation, Sep 13, 2005 04:30 PM [Anti - Recommended Reading For You]
161422, rabbitreborn, Sep 13, 2005 07:11 PM
161440, dp1, Sep 14, 2005 12:37 AM [Rabbit]
167188, rodsmith, Nov 12, 2005 06:21 AM
166892, Scaye, Nov 08, 2005 05:33 AM
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