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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): Unknown about the future
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Message 173481 (In Reply to Message 173475)
Kids
Posted by june5
on Feb 20, 2006 05:49 AM | Also by june5
| Gender: Female,
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Katie you don't have to give up having kids because society is against it. That is your right. I think Renny is just showing concern about how your kids may be treated based on their father's status. You might be forced to deal with it sooner than you want to, such as if your kid is in kindergarten and some other kids are making fun of him or her. Not to mention all the parents who are not going to let their kid go to your house, or let your kid go to theirs. It will happen. As a practical matter, I am not aware of any states that don't have some sort of proximity law keeping SO's however many feet away from school property. It would be really difficult to have a child if your husband is not allowed to set foot on school property: that means he can't give the kid a ride to school or go to his kid's basketball game.
As far as which states will be easier for you two; look at the sex offender registries online for the states that you are interested in. They will all have links that will lead you to the various laws of that state, so you will be able to find out which states have community notification, etc. Bear in mind that the laws of each state are subject to change at any time; many states are increasing the "penalties" for RSO's.
Note that you aren't even married yet and you already have to check out all these laws to find out where you might live. The amount of things like this that you will be doing and will be affected by will only increase once you are married. I suggest that if you have not already, start telling your friends and neighbors' about your fiance's status. Their reactions will give you some indication of what you will be facing on a regular basis after you are married.
I am a big-mouth and I will shut up now! Katie, I really hope that you are right about your fiance and that everything works out for you.
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Message 173475
Posted by katiebird
on Feb 20, 2006 04:46 AM | Also by katiebird
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173458, katiebird, Feb 20, 2006 12:32 AM [all help/comments invited]
173461, june5, Feb 20, 2006 02:12 AM [Hi Katie]
173462, Renunciation, Feb 20, 2006 02:27 AM
173475, katiebird, Feb 20, 2006 04:46 AM
173481, june5, Feb 20, 2006 05:49 AM [Kids]
173521, rodsmith, Feb 20, 2006 10:35 PM [june5]
173498, texaslady92778, Feb 20, 2006 04:27 PM [life with an RSO]
173547, Renunciation, Feb 21, 2006 05:00 AM
173552, june5, Feb 21, 2006 08:48 AM [Renny]
173560, texaslady92778, Feb 21, 2006 01:55 PM [renny]
173586, june5, Feb 21, 2006 07:39 PM [texaslady]
173601, Renunciation, Feb 22, 2006 03:15 AM
173611, dp1, Feb 22, 2006 04:32 PM
173639, june5, Feb 23, 2006 08:16 AM [dp1]
173658, rodsmith, Feb 23, 2006 06:38 PM [june5]
173665, Renunciation, Feb 23, 2006 06:56 PM [DP1]
173695, june5, Feb 24, 2006 08:00 AM [Renny]
173772, sidmanv8, Feb 25, 2006 05:03 PM
173463, june5, Feb 20, 2006 02:29 AM [Katie]
173478, katiebird, Feb 20, 2006 04:59 AM
173486, amberleaf, Feb 20, 2006 07:50 AM [Katie]
173487, dp1, Feb 20, 2006 11:30 AM
173466, june5, Feb 20, 2006 02:52 AM [More food for thought...]
173500, fireflybabe, Feb 20, 2006 04:51 PM [I too married a Sex Offender]
173599, amberleaf, Feb 22, 2006 02:27 AM [fireflybabe]
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