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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): The Truth as Indicated by True.com
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Message 169779 (In Reply to Message 169728)
Posted by Renunciation
on Dec 20, 2005 04:14 AM | Also by Renunciation
| Gender: N/A,
Age Bracket: 40 - 49,
State: N/A,
Country: Bahrain |
Our fellow member DP1 can give you some excellent advice, but if you would like some advice from a RSO I have a few key points:
1. Read the T&Cs of probation carefully and anything that sounds vague, ask for written clarification.
2. Once you are both comfortable with the rules, find a way/ways to work within the rules, not around them. POs are well-trained to recognize a supervision malingerer, but they also can see when someone is working wthin the rules.
3. Establish and maintain a respectful relationship with the PO. Believe it or not, the PO will be your strongest ally, as long as you follow # 1&2 above. If you work around the rules the PO will less inclined to be your ally.
Be the PO. My wife is my PO. She checks me, my machine, she makes me observe the rules daily, while my PO only checks me periodically. If you are tougher than the PO, he will be safe, you will be safe and the sacrifices will be worth it. It will not be easy, but usually the right thing is the hardest thing to do.
Be prepared for him to not be allowed to live at home. Start a business and hire him as an employee. Pay him with a 1099, as food and services. Finding a good job will be his hardest challenge.
Renny
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Message 169728
wife of s.o
Posted by cass117
on Dec 19, 2005 12:42 AM | Also by cass117
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 21 - 29,
State: North Carolina,
Country: United States |
Thread
169399, Renunciation, Dec 13, 2005 08:12 PM [2006 is the year for change - for hope]
169421, orolan, Dec 14, 2005 02:22 AM
169660, Renunciation, Dec 16, 2005 11:35 PM [MAINSQUEEZE.COM]
169515, june5, Dec 15, 2005 03:50 AM [Darn Tootin']
169662, Renunciation, Dec 17, 2005 12:54 AM
169709, orolan, Dec 18, 2005 05:15 PM
169722, Renunciation, Dec 18, 2005 08:56 PM
169753, orolan, Dec 19, 2005 05:47 PM
169678, Renunciation, Dec 17, 2005 05:51 PM [Muslim Only Dating]
169728, cass117, Dec 19, 2005 12:42 AM [wife of s.o]
169779, Renunciation, Dec 20, 2005 04:14 AM
169813, orolan, Dec 20, 2005 11:40 PM
169866, dp1, Dec 21, 2005 04:42 PM [Hi Cass]
169924, orolan, Dec 23, 2005 01:40 AM
170358, cass117, Dec 31, 2005 07:33 PM
170401, orolan, Jan 01, 2006 07:24 PM
170410, dp1, Jan 01, 2006 10:04 PM
170530, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Jan 04, 2006 12:58 AM [Too Late!]
170653, orolan, Jan 05, 2006 06:27 PM
170750, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Jan 06, 2006 11:48 PM
170813, orolan, Jan 07, 2006 07:42 PM
171356, Renunciation, Jan 16, 2006 01:20 AM [Update]
173183, Renunciation, Feb 12, 2006 09:47 PM [2-12-6 Update]
173185, steve, Feb 12, 2006 10:27 PM
173204, Renunciation, Feb 13, 2006 03:42 AM
173786, Renunciation, Feb 25, 2006 07:30 PM [Green Sheet]
174394, Pending Further Review
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