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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): bad thoughts
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Message 139647 (In Reply to Message 138993)
Posted by swla
on Sep 11, 2004 08:15 AM | Also by swla
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: Missouri,
Country: United States |
If you decide to kill yourself, who else will be hurt? Do you think your victim will think she killed you and have guilt for the rest of her life? If the parents do press charges, do you think they will feel they have a hand in your death? Will they have some sort of guilt? Do you have respect for any of these people, or they you? If they viewed you in such high regard and esteem before, what is to say they are not pressing charges just so they make sure you get the help you need, so you can move on and with the rest of your life, out of care and love? Find anyone in your life that you love and care for and they love and care for you the same, and think how much you will hurt them. They don't want to see you gone, only to get better, wiser and to be there to share their joys and happiness in life. Do not choose to cause more pain in peoples lives, your better than that. Show them that you do have the strength and courage to change. Otherwise it is like you are just running away from the problem. Why run where there are many arms outstreched to help you. Look at all here who might have had the same thoughts, you see we survived and are here to tell you our sucesses. Progress at better understanding ourselves, to where we can have lives that we never dreamed we could ever have had before. True it is hard work, and I'm not talking about the jail time, probation, having to pay for therapy, but finding out about my true self, my core being, and the rewards afterwards are too great to just run away from. It has to be something very serious for a person who had care and love in their heart for you, to hold a grudge for very long if you were out to prove to them, and to yourself, that you are willing to change to become a better person than they or yourself ever knew before. And showing that you were able to grow, that they might even accept you into their lives again to have a richer more meaningful relationship. Charges to me were not the end of the world, it was the beginning of a new life. A life I never knew existed or had in me, till now. Begin by seeking out help on your own now, for your own sake. Go find a therapist and start your own new life. Nothing to lose since you only feel like you are already at the bottom, which you aren't. Not having you around to help us all, including you, better understand ourselves to where we can all enrich our lives. Stay and help us, and we in return can help you as well.
I wish you the best of luck in your new life here with us,
swla
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Message 138993
Posted by troubled
on Aug 22, 2004 11:42 AM | Also by troubled
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
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138993, troubled, Aug 22, 2004 11:42 AM
139023, brennus, Aug 23, 2004 01:45 AM
139047, Silverthorne, Aug 23, 2004 07:35 AM
139055, truechange, Aug 23, 2004 01:31 PM [remorse]
139061, truechange, Aug 23, 2004 03:15 PM [help]
139175, Lorelei, Aug 27, 2004 01:37 AM [a good thought]
139105, poetsdreamscape, Aug 25, 2004 12:27 AM [change]
139110, dp1, Aug 25, 2004 01:34 AM
139126, 1dadof5, Aug 25, 2004 08:53 PM [keep the faith]
139574, assumption18, Sep 09, 2004 01:00 PM [well]
139647, swla, Sep 11, 2004 08:15 AM
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