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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): Incest
Message 138310
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Posted by assumption18
on Aug 01, 2004 03:13 PM | Also by assumption18
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 21 - 29,
State: District of Columbia,
Country: United States |
I just wondered on what the views/opinions on this topic are held by pedophiles here.
I am attracted to preteen girls, yet I am completely repulsed by the idea of finding a family member sexually attractive. I know some who are not as repulsed, I guess it can be brain chemistry, possibly I do not know. I know some who understand the consequences of such relationships, and do not put themselves into situations which could be tempting for them.
I just wondered on ya'll's opinion.
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Message 138320 (In Reply to Message 138310)
Posted by orolan
on Aug 02, 2004 05:33 PM | Also by orolan
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
Well, I'm not a pedophile, nor do I have an attraction for preteen girls. But as a boy of 10-11 I did "go out" with my cousin, a cute blonde who was my age. We did "experiment", but certainly never got past 2nd base;-)
Thank god that was 35 years ago and thus well beyond the statute of limitations, otherwise I might find myself facing charges for "taking her innocence":-p
Incest is rather difficult to understand in the best of circumstances. On the one hand I can see where a parent can victimize their child in their own misguided sense of "love" for that child. The child's unconditional love for their parent simply makes it much more palatable for the parent, because often the child doesn't protest.
On the other hand, I can't understand how a parent can be attracted to their own child sexually. I love my girls dearly, and I consider them to be quite beautiful. But I could not imagine seeing them in a sexual way. Just doesn't work with me.
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Message 138338 (In Reply to Message 138320)
Posted by Actavail
on Aug 03, 2004 12:47 PM | Also by Actavail
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: N/A,
Country: United Kingdom |
I would agree with orolan. I find a wide range of ages of girls sexually attractive (at least to a smalldegree) but have never had a shred of such a feeling for my daughter, who I know objectively is a beautiful young woman. I also never had sexual feelings for my sister.
My conclusion is that at least for 1st degree relatives, in some men, there is a big "OFF" switch. I don't think this applies to other more distant relationships e.g cousins, step-parents,uncles. In these cases, other more subtle taboos and feelings of parental responsibility come into play.
Some months ago i listened to a short piece on the radio about
"Genetic attraction disorder" where the 'OFF' switch, appears to be an 'ON' switch and people are very attracted to those of a similar genetic inheritance.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/weekend/story/0,3605,956454,00.html
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138310, assumption18, Aug 01, 2004 03:13 PM [Views / Opinions]
138320, orolan, Aug 02, 2004 05:33 PM
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