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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): Accused Update
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Message 139662 (In Reply to Message 138744)
Posted by swla
on Sep 11, 2004 08:16 PM | Also by swla
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: Missouri,
Country: United States |
Just to add onto what Silverthorne said earlier. Have you heard of shame? Shame on yourself is good. But if you keep beating yourself up over this. ie. I am a bad person. I don't deserve to live. That is called toxic shame. You do not want to be there. Realize what you have done is wrong. I think you see that. Then take steps to put yourself back in the right. Beating yourself up over something will not help. Realizing that it was wrong and taking steps to prevent youself from doing it again is all anyone asks. You don't want to hurt anymore kids, then take the steps to allow yourself not to.
And with the hard times of being on parole/probation, they want to see how well you can follow the straight line of society. How can you prove to them that you can?
swla
copyright 2004
P.S. I put the copyright in my posts to help stop cut & paste. Not that I think it helps much. Also one day I might have nothing to do and decide to write a book on my words and my story.
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Message 138744
Posted by JakeLF
on Aug 14, 2004 09:41 PM | Also by JakeLF
| Gender: N/A,
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137854, JakeLF, Jul 24, 2004 04:59 AM [Dropped Follow Through]
137889, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 02:16 AM
137900, JakeLF, Jul 25, 2004 02:45 AM [Thoughts]
137930, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 08:48 PM [Jake]
137943, JakeLF, Jul 26, 2004 01:44 AM [Dp1]
137950, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 08:36 AM [Jake]
137926, Silverthorne, Jul 25, 2004 05:26 PM [Jake]
137928, kiwi, Jul 25, 2004 06:43 PM [Jake]
138690, serenity2004, Aug 12, 2004 08:40 AM [Jake]
138692, dp1, Aug 12, 2004 01:41 PM
138744, JakeLF, Aug 14, 2004 09:41 PM
139662, swla, Sep 11, 2004 08:16 PM
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