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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): In April
Message 137851
I told a few
Posted by assumption18
on Jul 24, 2004 03:49 AM | Also by assumption18
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 21 - 29,
State: District of Columbia,
Country: United States |
I told a few of my close friends, and also my parents, about my orientation.
I will not come out publically, as that will only serve to wreck my life without a reason, as I am more than sure that I will never harm a little girl.
A phone call with my best friend at the time, who we had worked on university projects, and spent much time together.. went like this...
Me: "Now you know"
Him: " I do not want you to talk to me, or any members of my family ever again, I do not want to work with you at university, or talk to you, and also do not contact either, you need help..."
Me: "Feel free to ask what you want about me, before judging me so harshly."
Him: "You need help, Bye." *hangs up*
That went as I should have expected, although I at least expected him to ask me about it, I mean, since then I have not contacted him, and he has not contacted me.
Contrawise, I told another friend, whom I knew, but more recently had not seen that much but we stay in contact, about my orientation, he asked me about a few things that unsettled him such as if I would have sexual relations with little girls, to which I answered no, I would not, and well, he said he can't understand it, and that he isn't totally okay with it, but he is still my friend, because he knows I will not ever do such a thing.
My parents also accept me, because they trust me (they've known me all my life, and I am very open with them - I mean, I've told them about my orientation for heaven sake, I can't be much more open than that!), and know what I am capable of, and not capable of.
Another friends, we discussed the issues, and helped to weight it on both sides of the coin, such as from the perspective of someone who is not a pedophile, and I believe this has been beneficial, if not always a positive thing.
That was how it went though. Quite good over all I think. It could be much worse.
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Message 137892 (In Reply to Message 137851)
Posted by dp1
on Jul 25, 2004 02:27 AM | Also by dp1
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: Florida,
Country: United States |
So what you're saying is, your friend was the only one who spoke the truth and asked you to get help. Why doesn't that surprise me? Can you say enable? Can you tell us why your parents have no problems with you as a pedophile spending time with children to include physical affection? I am curious how your parents (assumng they are non-pedos) can rationalize that one. This should be very interesting indeed. Did you tell them about the porn and masterbating to sexual fantasies with children?
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Message 137901 (In Reply to Message 137851)
Posted by Silverthorne
on Jul 25, 2004 02:47 AM | Also by Silverthorne
| Gender: Male,
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State: Arizona,
Country: United States |
Well im not surprised at the reaction. I let my illness slip once to a friend and we never spoke again.
Silverthorne
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Message 137903 (In Reply to Message 137892)
Ummm...
Posted by assumption18
on Jul 25, 2004 02:51 AM | Also by assumption18
| Gender: Male,
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State: District of Columbia,
Country: United States |
Porn?
What porn?
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Message 137904 (In Reply to Message 137892)
Probably because
Posted by assumption18
on Jul 25, 2004 02:52 AM | Also by assumption18
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: District of Columbia,
Country: United States |
Can you tell us why your parents have no problems with you as a pedophile spending time with children to include physical affection?
They are normal human beings, who realise physical affection is harmless.
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Message 137905 (In Reply to Message 137892)
No
Posted by assumption18
on Jul 25, 2004 02:56 AM | Also by assumption18
| Gender: Male,
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What I am saying is,
that "friend" was the only one to listen to media based lies and false knowledge, reacting from pure emotion from the fear indoctrination which child molestation carries with it.
They all spoke the truth. Why doesn't it suprise me that you side with the one person who truly turns out Not to be a friend, NOT because he disagrees with me, but because he will not listen,not even for one second. Having your mind already made up about something that you have never ever dealt with, is foolish at the best of times. I should have expected you to agree with his ignorance.
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Message 137929 (In Reply to Message 137905)
A18
Posted by dp1
on Jul 25, 2004 08:18 PM | Also by dp1
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: Florida,
Country: United States |
As I exprected you to not agree with your friend or I because we think you need help. No biggie. If you thought you needed help you'd be getting it. Igorance is bliss as they say. There's no point in stating the obvious.
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Message 137939 (In Reply to Message 137903)
Posted by dp1
on Jul 26, 2004 12:10 AM | Also by dp1
| Gender: Female,
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State: Florida,
Country: United States |
So you're not into porn and you never molested children? Ok.
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137851, assumption18, Jul 24, 2004 03:49 AM [I told a few]
137892, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 02:27 AM
137903, assumption18, Jul 25, 2004 02:51 AM [Ummm...]
137939, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 12:10 AM
137904, assumption18, Jul 25, 2004 02:52 AM [Probably because]
137905, assumption18, Jul 25, 2004 02:56 AM [No]
137929, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 08:18 PM [A18]
137901, Silverthorne, Jul 25, 2004 02:47 AM
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