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Thread (Discussion): Accused

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Message 138688 (In Reply to Message 137759)
Jake


Posted by serenity2004 on Aug 12, 2004 08:26 AM | Also by serenity2004
Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Ohio, Country: United States
You probably know how opinionated I am from other posts, but I read through all of the posts to your situation here before posting myself.

First of all I would love to know where in the heck these boy's parents were, as my kids would not be allowed to swim in a lake at night, without lifejackets, and without ME.....regardless of naked men or not.

Second.....I do not allow my own children ages 5 and 9 to see me naked, moreless someone elses kids.

Jake, I know that a lot of people have asked the question " what were you thinking.....I can make assumptions all day and all night, and you can saqy whatever you like, but none of us will ever truly know what you were thinking, I have also heard of ....hmmmm....I think it is called dissassociation....where someone doesn't even remember completely thoughts or actions in certain situations.....Are you sure you even remember everything as it actually happened?

You stated that hte boys could see your trunks out on the raft....and that is why they removed theirs....I find that kind of odd.....if it was nightime, and I assume not a lighted area, or why would you be skinnydipping if there was a possibility of people being able to see that well.

Even with nothing in my past that would even make me or anyone else question whether I was a pedophile, as soon as I saw these children, I would have hurriedly put my swimming suit on, as I think it is innapropriate for children to see adults naked (even their parents). I would have then asked the child to do the same, and asked them if their parents knew they were out swimming so late, and if they said yes....I would have said well lets go find out.....(this tactic has worked well in finding out my friends kids were lying)

Jake as you claim you know....as a convicted SO...with a continual attraction to children.....especially this one, you absolutely cannot put yourself in these types of positions.

I do not believe that a grown man has any business having a 30 minute discussion with a 7yr old that he does not know, even if fully clothed, but NAKED....honestly, had it been my child......and there were no other accusations other than that you had sat talking to him with no clothes on, I would have tried to have any and all charges pressed ....and it would not have been me knocking on the door it would have been the police.

Why try to prove to yourself that you can do something that you have no business doing in the first place? You have stated that your thoughts have gone downhill since this situation....why do that to yourself....does it not make you miserable? I have seen numerous posts here that asked if you are on paarole, but I did not see an answer from you.....If you are, is it not a parole violation for you to even be in that close of proximity to a child alone?

It is hard for me to believe that a 7 yr old would make such detailed accusations, had he not seen it or had it done to him before, if not that night, it is my experience that kids that age may have been allowed to watch R movies in which there were men and women together, but unless the parents themselves are super sick and have pedo movies or magazines around, how would he have had such graphic images to describe......Did you conversate with him about any of these things.......Did you ask your friend to give you a little time to see if you could handle it, as 30 minutes seems like an awfully long time to take to go to your room to get some beer.

I am trying, as suggested elsewhere on this forum, to be more forgiving to those that have not directly affected my life, especially those like you who have expressed remorse like yourself......but the most empathetic thing I can say is PLEASE get some HELP, before you act on the thoughts that are again whirling through your head!!!

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Message 137759
Accused


Posted by JakeLF on Jul 23, 2004 12:56 AM | Also by JakeLF
Gender: N/A, Age Bracket: N/A, State: N/A, Country: United States

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137759, JakeLF, Jul 23, 2004 12:56 AM [Accused]
      137766, steve, Jul 23, 2004 01:57 AM
            137850, assumption18, Jul 24, 2004 03:39 AM [Well there are a few factors to consider]
            137855, dp1, Jul 24, 2004 05:43 AM [SUDS]
      137770, dp1, Jul 23, 2004 02:40 AM [Jake]
            137775, JakeLF, Jul 23, 2004 05:42 AM [friend from grade school]
                  137794, dp1, Jul 23, 2004 01:33 PM
                        137813, JakeLF, Jul 23, 2004 03:33 PM [It doesn't matter]
                              137840, dp1, Jul 23, 2004 08:11 PM [Jake]
      137772, myoung, Jul 23, 2004 02:53 AM [okay]
            137776, JakeLF, Jul 23, 2004 05:44 AM [I wasn't thinking]
                  137869, myoung, Jul 24, 2004 03:17 PM [it's a little weird]
                        137877, JakeLF, Jul 24, 2004 05:51 PM [They Boy admitted nothing happend]
                              137884, brennus, Jul 24, 2004 10:17 PM [Funny? I don't think SO!]
                                    137938, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 11:49 PM [Brennus]
                                          137941, brennus, Jul 26, 2004 12:55 AM [dp]
                                                137946, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 02:06 AM [Brennus]
                              137902, Silverthorne, Jul 25, 2004 02:50 AM
                                    137911, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 03:38 AM [Silver]
                                          137915, assumption18, Jul 25, 2004 03:47 AM [A naked man?]
                                                137936, dp1, Jul 25, 2004 11:40 PM [A18]
                                                      137975, assumption18, Jul 26, 2004 08:09 PM [Apparently]
                                                            137984, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 09:15 PM [A18]
                                          137917, Silverthorne, Jul 25, 2004 06:21 AM
                                          137989, Silverthorne, Jul 26, 2004 10:59 PM [Best advice]
      137773, dp1, Jul 23, 2004 03:15 AM [Jake]
            137777, JakeLF, Jul 23, 2004 05:48 AM [group]
                  137789, dp1, Jul 23, 2004 01:22 PM
                        137842, poetsdreamscape, Jul 23, 2004 10:31 PM [why?]
                              137893, JakeLF, Jul 25, 2004 02:28 AM [Nothing happend]
      137918, Silverthorne, Jul 25, 2004 06:24 AM [Question for Jake]
            137937, assumption18, Jul 25, 2004 11:42 PM [It would play]
            137942, JakeLF, Jul 26, 2004 01:39 AM [Attracted to both]
                  137951, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 08:47 AM [Jake]
                        137954, JakeLF, Jul 26, 2004 01:34 PM [DP1]
                              137968, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 05:48 PM [Jake]
                                    138199, KK, Jul 30, 2004 05:41 AM [Yikes]
      138688, serenity2004, Aug 12, 2004 08:26 AM [Jake]
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