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Message 137290 (In Reply to Message 137287)

Posted by steve on Jul 12, 2004 12:40 AM | Also by steve

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 30 - 39, State: Virginia, Country: United States

Firstly you said the girl entered the room when he already had his pants down? Perhaps he was masturbating already, I know its not a topic parents ever like to discuss, but if he was, no doubt he was very tempted to ask her to touch him.

No doubt, eh? You make it sound as though that would be an expected response when a 14 year old is masturbating and a 5 year old catches him in the act. I can't speak for all 14 year old boys, but I think you'll find it's more likely that the typical 14 year old boy would stop masturbating, cover himself up and ask the other person to leave. When the other person is a 5 year old and a relative I think that's even more likely.

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Message 137287
Okay this is what i said

Posted by assumption18 on Jul 11, 2004 11:40 PM | Also by assumption18

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 21 - 29, State: District of Columbia, Country: United States

or thereabouts as I do not keep a record of everything I write (heh im not very organised lol).

Firstly you said the girl entered the room when he already had his pants down? Perhaps he was masturbating already, I know its not a topic parents ever like to discuss, but if he was, no doubt he was very tempted to ask her to touch him.

If not, secondly, he is 14. Many 14yo boys would use whatever objects they could if it meant they could get sexual satisfaction. No offence, but at times they can be incredibly sexually motivated. She was there at the wrong time, he could have done a lot worse than he did.

Please do talk to him about the real and present threat of things like this being punished however, as the law will not take my above statements as an excuse. And it no doubt has left the 5yo with a few questions.

All I say is, do not worry about him it seems like a situation MANY MANY 14yo boys could be in.

Make sure he is aware of the consequences of his actions if caught in future, make him VERY aware.

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137124, momwants2help, Jul 09, 2004 07:17 AM [how bad is it?]
      137152, fallenone, Jul 09, 2004 04:53 PM
            137171, poetsdreamscape, Jul 09, 2004 07:50 PM [time for a talk]
      137258, assumption18, Jul 11, 2004 02:14 AM [um]
            137261, steve, Jul 11, 2004 03:22 AM
            137273, momwants2help, Jul 11, 2004 06:03 AM [I didn't ever see a post either]
                  137287, assumption18, Jul 11, 2004 11:40 PM [Okay this is what i said]
                        137290, steve, Jul 12, 2004 12:40 AM
                              137297, assumption18, Jul 12, 2004 01:18 AM [Perhaps not "no doubt" then]
                              137299, dp1, Jul 12, 2004 01:30 AM
                                    137782, momwants2help, Jul 23, 2004 08:31 AM
                        137545, Silverthorne, Jul 18, 2004 03:49 AM [Disagree]
                  137328, jiGGaMe, Jul 13, 2004 03:59 AM [You sound overwhelmed..]
                  137340, deadmomwalking, Jul 13, 2004 10:37 PM
                        137381, myoung, Jul 15, 2004 01:26 AM [deadmomwalking]
                        137783, momwants2help, Jul 23, 2004 08:48 AM [thank you for your thoughts]
                              137844, deadmomwalking, Jul 23, 2004 10:55 PM [momw2h]
      137360, momwants2help, Jul 14, 2004 08:54 AM [Thank you to all who posted replies....u...]
            137546, Silverthorne, Jul 18, 2004 03:51 AM
                  137857, deadmomwalking, Jul 24, 2004 08:33 AM [painful erections]
            137679, poetsdreamscape, Jul 21, 2004 06:55 AM
                  137781, momwants2help, Jul 23, 2004 08:18 AM [in response to some of your questions]
                        137841, poetsdreamscape, Jul 23, 2004 10:08 PM [no]

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