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Message 136842 (In Reply to Message 136827)
The Day After

Posted by JakeLF on Jul 03, 2004 12:43 AM | Also by JakeLF

Gender: N/A, Age Bracket: N/A, State: N/A, Country: United States

She is 18, and she told me that her doctor said awhile ago that she couldn't have children because I damaged someothing inside her. I am not sure excatly what is wrong with her but that is what she told me. I am not sure if they just told me that to make me feel worse for what I did to her or if it is actually fact. I guess I will never know.

Yeah your right about me feeling bad about myself and feeling like things will never be better. I am starting to gradually feel better about who I am and the fact that I am a pedophile. I know that will never change about who I am and that I shouldn't be scared of that. I have started to feel a little bit better since yesterday when I talked to my niece. I feel alot better and feel like a few things got some closeure.

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Message 136827
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Posted by Silverthorne on Jul 02, 2004 06:00 AM | Also by Silverthorne

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<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">"Her dad told me that he has no understanding what draws me to children and why I molested children but told me that I should find god before its too late. "</span></blockquote>

Exactly how old is she now and why cant she have children? Was this a medical diagnosis?

As for the father you've apologized. Of course they wont greet you with open arms.  You violated a trust and abused your niece.  But you've done what YOU need to do.  You've apologized. Its up to THEM to move on or not.

Either way YOU can now move on.  YOU have done what YOU needed to do.  You cant make them accept the apology.

I'd be disturbed if you felt no guilt over what you did.  I find your remorse to be encouraging.  But I also find your self-pity to be a bit upsetting.  As someone who battles pedophilia I also know what you're talking about but you need to put aside the "wooo is me".  You've got an illness.  There is no cure.  You just have to live with it.

Don't expect people to understand why your this way.  Like the father said he can't understand how you could be attracted to children.  Likewise I can't understand how men can be attracted to women (so there).  Your sexual "target" isn't acceptable.  Your going to have to live a sexually isolated life but that doesnt mean you have to be isolated.

Silverthorne

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136798, JakeLF, Jul 01, 2004 11:28 PM [Meeting with her for the first time....]
      136827, Silverthorne, Jul 02, 2004 06:00 AM [Sad]
            136842, JakeLF, Jul 03, 2004 12:43 AM [The Day After]
                  136844, dp1, Jul 03, 2004 03:58 AM [Jake]
      136830, dp1, Jul 02, 2004 01:47 PM [Jake]
      136835, fallenone, Jul 02, 2004 05:00 PM
      136936, deadmomwalking, Jul 05, 2004 09:18 AM
            136950, deadmomwalking, Jul 05, 2004 07:19 PM [oops, freudian slip]
            136956, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 09:34 PM [DMW]
      137039, dp1, Jul 07, 2004 02:56 PM [Jake]

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