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Forum: The Other Side
Thread (Discussion): therapy alone?
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Message 136951 (In Reply to Message 136944)
Posted by dp1
on Jul 05, 2004 07:23 PM | Also by dp1
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: Florida,
Country: United States |
Gotcha. Can you describe how the conversation would go with the parent(s) before you accept babysitting for them?
Scenerio:
I ask you to come to my house to babysit my preteen daughter. You walk in and we do the usual briefing on where the pizzi is in the fridge, what time to go to bed, give you my cell phone number for emergencies, ask you not to smoke inside the house, take the dog out at 9 pm for a walk, finish the rest. How would you address boundaries?
Excuse me Mrs. DP1, do you mind if I kiss your daughter?
Would rubbing non-private parts be acceptable?
Can we talk, laugh and giggle while holding hand promising not to engage in intercourse?
Exactly how would getting permission from the parents occur? Or would you have already scoped out the parents who you'd suspect have unhealthy boundaries?
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Message 136944
I see what you are saying
Posted by assumption18
on Jul 05, 2004 03:42 PM | Also by assumption18
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: District of Columbia,
Country: United States |
Thread
136784, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 04:10 PM [A most dangerous game]
136847, dp1, Jul 03, 2004 04:39 AM
136860, Navigatr1, Jul 03, 2004 02:35 PM
136872, fallenone, Jul 03, 2004 07:14 PM [The better way is not the easier way]
136878, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 02:26 AM [F1]
136893, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:45 AM
136915, Silverthorne, Jul 04, 2004 09:30 PM [Problem is....]
136920, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:53 PM [Silver]
137087, myoung, Jul 08, 2004 02:57 PM [dp1]
137002, fallenone, Jul 06, 2004 10:49 PM
137019, dp1, Jul 07, 2004 03:50 AM
137092, fallenone, Jul 08, 2004 07:12 PM
137105, dp1, Jul 09, 2004 02:37 AM [Generalizing]
137150, fallenone, Jul 09, 2004 04:45 PM
137194, dp1, Jul 10, 2004 04:44 AM [F1]
137972, fallenone, Jul 26, 2004 07:07 PM [You just don't g...]
137978, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 08:13 PM
138085, fallenone, Jul 28, 2004 05:20 PM
136894, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:51 AM
136916, Silverthorne, Jul 04, 2004 09:35 PM [Not entirely true]
136919, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:49 PM [Silver]
136928, Silverthorne, Jul 05, 2004 02:10 AM [Not the same]
136929, Silverthorne, Jul 05, 2004 02:18 AM [MLK lesson here]
136931, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 03:57 AM [Silver]
136979, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:49 AM
136986, dp1, Jul 06, 2004 10:45 AM [OK]
136992, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:14 PM [Well....]
137003, dp1, Jul 06, 2004 10:54 PM [Silver]
137023, Silverthorne, Jul 07, 2004 07:22 AM [DP1]
137085, Navigatr1, Jul 08, 2004 02:56 PM [Isolation]
136875, assumption18, Jul 03, 2004 09:50 PM [It starts with change.]
136882, Silverthorne, Jul 04, 2004 03:44 AM [About FreeSpirits]
136883, myoung, Jul 04, 2004 04:06 AM [okay...thanks silver]
136888, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 04:38 AM
136889, steve, Jul 04, 2004 05:15 AM
136901, assumption18, Jul 04, 2004 04:21 PM [More about me]
136910, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 08:26 PM [A18]
136917, assumption18, Jul 04, 2004 10:53 PM [Thankyou for your questions]
136925, Silverthorne, Jul 05, 2004 01:59 AM [Assumption]
136932, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 04:11 AM [A18]
136941, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 01:12 PM [About Love]
136943, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 03:06 PM [A18]
136944, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 03:42 PM [I see what yo...]
136951, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 07:23 PM
136955, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 09:28 PM [My reply]
136958, steve, Jul 05, 2004 10:02 PM
136959, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 10:09 PM [Will Move th...]
136945, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 04:35 PM [Second reply...]
136952, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 07:36 PM
136993, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:17 PM ["Love" and boylovers]
136994, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:20 PM [DP1]
136940, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 01:05 PM [Where the line is drawn]
136954, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 07:54 PM [Drawing Lines]
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