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Message 136901 (In Reply to Message 136889)
More about me


Posted by assumption18 on Jul 04, 2004 04:21 PM | Also by assumption18
Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 21 - 29, State: District of Columbia, Country: United States
I came across this site before, and wanted to join in the discussions so I have.

I am sexually attracted to preteen girls, I have known this for a good few years. Up until last year, it was something I felt was getting out of control. So I looked on the net for support groups, therapy, etc. I found that it couldn't be "cured" and that many places were saying "its only a matter of time before you blow up", and obviously I dont want to commit any such offence.

Then I found much to my salvation, that when I admitted it to myself, and looked openly into it, rather than trying to deny it, that I wasnt simply just sexually attracted to little girls. Yes, the sexual attraction was part of it, but it neither was the driving force, not even that important in the grand scheme of it all. Being able act legally, with physical intimacy (ie hugs, holding hands, talking, spending time with) with little girls in a degree that is not appropriate has given me back what i thought i had lost, self control. I no longer have to worry about these desires, its almost as if my mind has said "sex with lil girls, dont matter, get over it", and so yes i can still look at a ltitle girl, and if I choose to, I could be turned on by her, but I would leave that to the realm of fantasy, and also in moderation, and live my life, legally, and safely knowing, at least to myself, and those who have taken the step to trust me, I will never harm a little girl.

I refer to myself as a Non-contact Girl Lover, non-contact, in that I do not seek out sexual contact with preteen girls. Being also a born-again Christian, I do not agree with sex outside of marriage, and I am also attracted to women, so there is not a problem with it being a "dead end".

To those who are willing to listen, I am here to offer a voice, a voice of reason, a voice of hope, that you do not have to suffer at the hands of the sexual attraction.

As for LL,

it IS hosted by freespirits, who run predominatly BoyLove sites, but it is a chat/ discussion forum for pedophiles who are depressed / contemplating suicide, etc. It has both BoyLovers, GirlLovers, and "nons" alike, who help out there. Many good things have come from this.

I am sure, that the person in charge of LL will be more than willing to answer any questions you may have, which btw is Not me.

Look around the site.

:)

bye for now.

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Message 136889


Posted by steve on Jul 04, 2004 05:15 AM | Also by steve
Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 30 - 39, State: Virginia, Country: United States

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136784, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 04:10 PM [A most dangerous game]
      136847, dp1, Jul 03, 2004 04:39 AM
            136860, Navigatr1, Jul 03, 2004 02:35 PM
                  136872, fallenone, Jul 03, 2004 07:14 PM [The better way is not the easier way]
                        136878, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 02:26 AM [F1]
                  136893, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:45 AM
                        136915, Silverthorne, Jul 04, 2004 09:30 PM [Problem is....]
                              136920, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:53 PM [Silver]
                                    137087, myoung, Jul 08, 2004 02:57 PM [dp1]
                        137002, fallenone, Jul 06, 2004 10:49 PM
                              137019, dp1, Jul 07, 2004 03:50 AM
                                    137092, fallenone, Jul 08, 2004 07:12 PM
                                          137105, dp1, Jul 09, 2004 02:37 AM [Generalizing]
                                                137150, fallenone, Jul 09, 2004 04:45 PM
                                                      137194, dp1, Jul 10, 2004 04:44 AM [F1]
                                                            137972, fallenone, Jul 26, 2004 07:07 PM [You just don't g...]
                                                                  137978, dp1, Jul 26, 2004 08:13 PM
                                                                        138085, fallenone, Jul 28, 2004 05:20 PM
                  136894, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:51 AM
                        136916, Silverthorne, Jul 04, 2004 09:35 PM [Not entirely true]
                              136919, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 11:49 PM [Silver]
                                    136928, Silverthorne, Jul 05, 2004 02:10 AM [Not the same]
                                          136929, Silverthorne, Jul 05, 2004 02:18 AM [MLK lesson here]
                                          136931, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 03:57 AM [Silver]
                                                136979, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:49 AM
                                                      136986, dp1, Jul 06, 2004 10:45 AM [OK]
                                                            136992, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:14 PM [Well....]
                                                                  137003, dp1, Jul 06, 2004 10:54 PM [Silver]
                                                                        137023, Silverthorne, Jul 07, 2004 07:22 AM [DP1]
                        137085, Navigatr1, Jul 08, 2004 02:56 PM [Isolation]
      136875, assumption18, Jul 03, 2004 09:50 PM [It starts with change.]
            136882, Silverthorne, Jul 04, 2004 03:44 AM [About FreeSpirits]
                  136883, myoung, Jul 04, 2004 04:06 AM [okay...thanks silver]
                  136888, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 04:38 AM
            136889, steve, Jul 04, 2004 05:15 AM
                  136901, assumption18, Jul 04, 2004 04:21 PM [More about me]
                        136910, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 08:26 PM [A18]
                              136917, assumption18, Jul 04, 2004 10:53 PM [Thankyou for your questions]
                                    136925, Silverthorne, Jul 05, 2004 01:59 AM [Assumption]
                                          136932, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 04:11 AM [A18]
                                                136941, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 01:12 PM [About Love]
                                                      136943, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 03:06 PM [A18]
                                                            136944, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 03:42 PM [I see what yo...]
                                                                  136951, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 07:23 PM
                                                                        136955, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 09:28 PM [My reply]
                                                                              136958, steve, Jul 05, 2004 10:02 PM
                                                                              136959, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 10:09 PM [Will Move th...]
                                                            136945, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 04:35 PM [Second reply...]
                                                                  136952, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 07:36 PM
                                                136993, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:17 PM ["Love" and boylovers]
                                                      136994, Silverthorne, Jul 06, 2004 06:20 PM [DP1]
                                          136940, assumption18, Jul 05, 2004 01:05 PM [Where the line is drawn]
                                                136954, dp1, Jul 05, 2004 07:54 PM [Drawing Lines]
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