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Message 137264 (In Reply to Message 137236)
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Posted by dp1 on Jul 11, 2004 04:03 AM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

Hello Walking. Welcome to this forum.

Do you happen to work in Jacksonville, dp1? I might have to request you as my probation officer. :) If mine had the kinds of open dialogues you've talked about on here, I wouldn't consider interaction with him to be such a burdensome process.

No I do not work in Jacksonville. If you think conversations in this forum are open you should hear them in real life:-) It's a shame you don't have open communication with your officer. However, from the very little I have seen you seem to communicate well yourself and with your therapist. This is a good thing.

That's so hard for me to understand. Why would you allow the law to maintain that much control over you? If the law required you to round up sex offenders for mass execution, would you still respect legal authority? At what point does a law demand resistance?

I understand what you are saying. My example was simply a fantasy of mine from a heterosexual point of view. My point being, if a pedophile or sex offender loved kids as much as I love men and I have the strength to say no then they could too. Alternatives other than breaking the law should be looked at first IMO.

If I were told today that I suffered from diabetes and if I continued to eat sugar I would go blind then guess what? Me and those little pink packets called Sweet N Low would be best buddies all of a sudden, catch my drift?

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Message 137236

Posted by WalkingTheLine on Jul 10, 2004 11:19 PM | Also by WalkingTheLine

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

Do you happen to work in Jacksonville, dp1? I might have to request you as my probation officer. :) If mine had the kinds of open dialogues you've talked about on here, I wouldn't consider interaction with him to be such a burdensome process.

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">I have a question for you. I also asked Silverthorne the same thing. While I understand we all have sexual preferences, what is stopping you from having sex with adults? Do you prefer males or females or both? Were all your victims about the same age and sex or is there a variety?</span></blockquote>

Although the question wasn't directed at me, I've had my therapist ask me this one before. Going in reverse order, I'm oriented exclusively towards preteen and early teen males, and all three of my past relationships (I'm still not swayed enough to use the term 'victims' to describe them) were with males of that age group. When I say "oriented", I mean (without getting too graphic) that what I find physically attractive about a person is found almost always in males of that age (there are people with pan-hypopituitarism, essentially adults in prepubescent bodies, but aside from being virtually unfindable, it seems so crass to turn around and say, 'Hey, your disease makes you attractive to me, wanna go out?') This is not to say that the physical is all that matters, but it is, if you'll pardon the expression, what seperates the men from the boys.

There's nothing "stopping" me from having sex with adults, just like there's nothing stopping you from having sex with women. And I'd probably enjoy it to a certain extent, too - any sex causes pleasure, a fact which makes forced sex all the more damaging to victims of it. However I don't believe in casual sex, or any sex outside of the context of a romantic relationship, and I would feel morally affronted at the idea of "using" an adult merely for sexual gratification. And I wouldn't be able to feel the "bond" of that relationship - whatever spiritual and emotional connection beyond words comes from true, deep love with a partner. Why not? No idea. Of course, I wish I could - it would make life a lot easier. While on probation, I have been attempting to seek out relationships with adult males. I find that it is possible for me to find some 18-23 year old males attractive, although I think I might be going through something akin to "submarine syndrome." I won't know that for sure until I'm off probation, whereupon hopefully I'll have an adult partner and I can see whether things change.

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">However, in DP1's fantasy world if they outlawed sex with men and sex with children remained illegal,  I suppose I'd have to try women.</span></blockquote>

That's so hard for me to understand. Why would you allow the law to maintain that much control over you? If the law required you to round up sex offenders for mass execution, would you still respect legal authority? At what point does a law demand resistance?

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136765, JakeLF, Jul 01, 2004 12:42 AM [Seeking Help...]
      136768, dp1, Jul 01, 2004 04:00 AM [Jake]
            136828, Silverthorne, Jul 02, 2004 06:08 AM [Thanks DP1- Jake]
            137236, WalkingTheLine, Jul 10, 2004 11:19 PM
                  137264, dp1, Jul 11, 2004 04:03 AM [WTL]
                        137288, WalkingTheLine, Jul 11, 2004 11:45 PM
      136776, myoung, Jul 01, 2004 01:06 PM [Jake jake jake]
      136782, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:34 PM
      137237, WalkingTheLine, Jul 10, 2004 11:37 PM

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