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Message 136575 (In Reply to Message 136569)
This above all - to thine own self be true.

Posted by tryingtosurvive on Jun 26, 2004 11:42 AM | Also by tryingtosurvive

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: N/A, Country: Australia

Dear Steve,

I am fine with your decision to put my thread either here or on General. Really speaking I am not a "victim of a sex crime" but more a person against whom good laws have been subverted to a mischevious effect. The point of my post was that the checks and balances in the legal system are starting to kick in, now that more experienced practicioners in the prosecuters office are begining to weigh my case and find the flaws in it.

Since this whole horrible thing happened I have searched my soul to own any culpabiltiy and to see how matters of this kind play out for others.

It is true that many cases I have sat in court on have amounted to a he said / she said, that if I were not duty bound to find beyond reasonable doubt, I would call rape and the party has walked. Others have been ambiguous and, of course, same deal.

I find common ground with "victims" in that I refuse to call my self a victim and also that I want to forgive and understand the motives and the nature of the emotional failings of my attacker.

There would be no point in bothering to post lies here. Assuredly you are all real people with real lives, but to me you are ephemera and the only point of posting here, is to use your feedback to help me ask myself questions I may not have thought of. If I had found myself culpable to a degree that I would have got away with something on reasonable doubt I would never put myself through that again by being very circumspect with future encounters if an element of criminality on my part were a precipitating factor.

My case is really strange and the confidentiality associated with subjudicy precludes me going into depth but when the matter is resolved I will give you guys the wide brown dirt - if you are interested.

I know a Principal of a prestigious private school who's career was ruined and who is as innocent as I am. The DPP dropped all charges but the media made the guy look like the "one that got away" since they had been dining out , buzzardlike, on the roadkill of his life's unimpunable work despite his innocence.

I pray he like me will move on and get a real man's job and rise above the stings of the petty, jealous and crippled.

Kind Regards

TTS

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Message 136569

Posted by steve on Jun 26, 2004 04:04 AM | Also by steve

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 30 - 39, State: Virginia, Country: United States

I moved the thread here because it seemed like a more appropriate location.  I didn't notice what forum it was originally in until dp1 brought it to my attention since the pending queue doesn't show the forum name (something I need to address).  tryingtosurvive very well may be a victim, but if so he's a victim of a fabricated accusation and imperfect justice system, not a victim of a sex crime.  Unfortunately there isn't a forum dedicated to such circumstances, but a forum dedicated to such topics isn't yet justifiable since it's my policy to keep the number of forums as low as possible and to only add forums when there's either enough discussion volume or to deliniate discussion as required.  If this isn't an appropriate forum for this thread I invite tryingtosurvive to contact me by Private Message and I'll be glad to move it to the General forum if he prefers.

tryingtosurvive's situation is one that should be heard and discussed, but I didn't think the original forum location was the best fit.  It didn't dawn on me that the move would be ill-received.

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136545, tryingtosurvive, Jun 25, 2004 01:50 PM
      136557, dp1, Jun 25, 2004 11:14 PM [To Steve]
            136564, orolan, Jun 26, 2004 03:01 AM [?????]
                  136566, dp1, Jun 26, 2004 03:14 AM
                        136569, steve, Jun 26, 2004 04:04 AM
                              136575, tryingtosurvive, Jun 26, 2004 11:42 AM [This above all - to thine ...]
                  136568, deadmomwalking, Jun 26, 2004 03:53 AM
                        136616, myoung, Jun 27, 2004 06:39 AM [dmw]
                              136625, tryingtosurvive, Jun 27, 2004 02:50 PM [PLS explain?]
                                    136636, dp1, Jun 27, 2004 09:46 PM [TTS]
                                    136655, myoung, Jun 28, 2004 02:27 AM [PLS speak english]
                                    136669, deadmomwalking, Jun 28, 2004 10:58 AM
                                          137130, tryingtosurvive, Jul 09, 2004 01:33 PM [America - your stan...]
                                                137305, deadmomwalking, Jul 12, 2004 08:45 AM
                                                      138892, tryingtosurvive, Aug 18, 2004 03:53 PM [Some clarific...]
                                                      138894, tryingtosurvive, Aug 18, 2004 04:35 PM [Issues about ...]
                                                            138963, truechange, Aug 20, 2004 01:29 PM [date]
                              136675, tryingtosurvive, Jun 28, 2004 01:48 PM [mussolini had the same pro...]
                                    136689, myoung, Jun 28, 2004 08:11 PM [don't think so]
      136664, Silverthorne, Jun 28, 2004 06:14 AM [Silverthorne's justice]
            136679, acts2413, Jun 28, 2004 03:45 PM [Silverthorne Justice to the Rescue!!! Brin...]
                  136690, myoung, Jun 28, 2004 08:14 PM [incarcerate how]
                        136695, dp1, Jun 28, 2004 11:06 PM
      136724, fallenone, Jun 29, 2004 05:30 PM [Consider yourself blessed]
      138908, truechange, Aug 19, 2004 01:30 PM [That's tough.]
      139645, swla, Sep 11, 2004 07:05 AM
            139663, dp1, Sep 12, 2004 12:59 AM
                  139666, swla, Sep 12, 2004 02:54 AM
                        139695, dp1, Sep 13, 2004 01:49 AM

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Message 136575 (In Reply to Message 136569)
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