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Message 136831 (In Reply to Message 136817)
NLH

Posted by dp1 on Jul 02, 2004 02:00 PM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

nolongerhomocidal,

Hello and welcome to this forum. You bring up some good points. I just wanted to thank you for sharing. Can you tell us a little about yourself?

I am a PO, so I know what you are saying. I'll be honest with you though, not all people on probation trust their PO's. Some have fear or control issues which will always get in the middle of effective communication. But, recommending that someone talk to their PO is the right thing to do and quite honestly it's better to talk to your PO even if you think he'll get mad at you then to stuff and face possible re-offending.

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Message 136817
what about just talking to your PO

Posted by nolongerhomocidal on Jul 02, 2004 04:04 AM | Also by nolongerhomocidal

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: N/A, Country: United States

Perhaps you should try contacting the child advocacy groups in your area. Tell them that you are having a hard tiime struggling with your sexual desires and you fear that you might repeat your offenses towards innocent children. I am thinking that if that doesnt work  you could go to your Parole Officer and tell him/her that you are having a hard time controlling your urges. I think they might appreciate your honesty and be willing to find different resources or perhaps more resources to help you in your plight. I understand it must be hard for you. Should you end up becoming a repeat offender that goes to court again, you might try telling the judge that you just cant help yourself when you are around children. 
Or you could just start trying to listen to your inner self... the one that tells you that its wrong to touch children in a sexual way. Perhaps you should try a lil harder to listen to yourself when you know what you are saying is right.
We can all  give you suggestions. Tell you what you should be doing. But the fact is YOU already know what you should be doing. You dont need us to tell you that molesting children is wrong. I read that you stated you have already done time in prison. Your lil quip about missing it too. And if thats the case ... there are many other crimes out there that you can commit that dont involve children. So I am not sure why you would type out that you are having a hard time dealing with sexual desires towards children. I am sorry  you feel inadequate when it comes to adult partners. Perhaps you should be dealing with your self esteem issue as well. But like I already said you dont need to be told what to do. However I will say this .... please dont molest or sexually offend any more innocent children for your own gratification. It isnt right.

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136445, JakeLF, Jun 23, 2004 06:40 AM [Its really hard]
      136466, deadmomwalking, Jun 23, 2004 07:29 PM
            136477, myoung, Jun 24, 2004 01:36 AM [it saddens me]
            136528, JakeLF, Jun 25, 2004 04:29 AM [Thanks for the response]
                  136551, myoung, Jun 25, 2004 04:10 PM [Jake]
                  136558, dp1, Jun 25, 2004 11:22 PM [Jake]
      136508, dp1, Jun 24, 2004 01:31 PM
            136688, fallenone, Jun 28, 2004 07:34 PM [Therapy doesn't cut it.]
                  136701, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 02:52 AM [Listen to What you're Saying]
                        136703, steve, Jun 29, 2004 03:17 AM
                              136722, fallenone, Jun 29, 2004 05:10 PM [An unDePendable assessment]
                                    136725, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 06:29 PM [Beautiful]
                                          136728, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 06:49 PM [Friendly Suggestion]
                                                136781, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:21 PM [Get over yourself]
                                          136792, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 06:27 PM
                                                136854, dp1, Jul 03, 2004 11:17 AM [F1]
                                                      136873, fallenone, Jul 03, 2004 07:45 PM [You're trying too hard]
                                                            136887, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 04:31 AM [F1]
                                                                  137004, fallenone, Jul 06, 2004 11:42 PM [reforming the...]
                                    136739, myoung, Jun 29, 2004 08:41 PM [F1]
                                          136740, steve, Jun 29, 2004 09:16 PM
                                          136742, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 11:49 PM [MYoung]
                                                136747, myoung, Jun 30, 2004 03:53 AM [absolutely dp1]
                                                      136751, dp1, Jun 30, 2004 04:57 AM [MYoung]
                                                            136775, myoung, Jul 01, 2004 12:53 PM [uh huh]
                                          136783, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:54 PM [Et tu, brute?]
      136576, tryingtosurvive, Jun 26, 2004 01:25 PM [Cheer up Mate]
            136581, deadmomwalking, Jun 26, 2004 05:28 PM [JAKE]
                  136620, tryingtosurvive, Jun 27, 2004 01:10 PM [Amen to DMW with some reservations.]
                        136634, dp1, Jun 27, 2004 09:36 PM [TTS]
      136817, nolongerhomocidal, Jul 02, 2004 04:04 AM [what about just talking to your PO]
            136831, dp1, Jul 02, 2004 02:00 PM [NLH]

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NLH

Message 136817
what about just talking to your PO