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Message 136747 (In Reply to Message 136742)
absolutely dp1


Posted by myoung on Jun 30, 2004 03:53 AM | Also by myoung
Gender: N/A, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Pennsylvania, Country: United States
You took the words right out of my geeky mouth...lol. Resistant to change is what I was trying to get at I think but the words weren't coming. Therapy is a lot of work and if you aren't willing to work, you will not do well. It's not the therapy that failed you, it's you who failed in therapy. I have been in therapy since long before my daughter was molested. Geez, it's been nearly 10 years I think. I use biofeedback, accupuncture, meditation, yoga, and whatever other methods my therapists feels will help. We do have venting sessions but he applies accupuncture while I am doing that. It helps me relax and keep my thoughts straight. But, I have to go home and actually apply all of these methods. Unlike my sister who is still rather unwell and has been in therapy longer than I. She doesn't do the work and she doesn't apply the principles. That is so key to recovery. I nearly burst into tears when my father told me that all of the biofeedback tapes she has from therapy are still unopened. He also informed me that instead of actually doing the yoga exercises and meditation, she watches the cd but never does it. Funny, she doesn't do the work and I've noticed her slipping back into her old patterns and ways of thinking as well. She and I are a good experiment to see if these things really work. We had and have similar issues but one of us is working hard at it and the other is not. Which do you think will slip back first?? Hmmmmmmm

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Message 136742
MYoung


Posted by dp1 on Jun 29, 2004 11:49 PM | Also by dp1
Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

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136445, JakeLF, Jun 23, 2004 06:40 AM [Its really hard]
      136466, deadmomwalking, Jun 23, 2004 07:29 PM
            136477, myoung, Jun 24, 2004 01:36 AM [it saddens me]
            136528, JakeLF, Jun 25, 2004 04:29 AM [Thanks for the response]
                  136551, myoung, Jun 25, 2004 04:10 PM [Jake]
                  136558, dp1, Jun 25, 2004 11:22 PM [Jake]
      136508, dp1, Jun 24, 2004 01:31 PM
            136688, fallenone, Jun 28, 2004 07:34 PM [Therapy doesn't cut it.]
                  136701, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 02:52 AM [Listen to What you're Saying]
                        136703, steve, Jun 29, 2004 03:17 AM
                              136722, fallenone, Jun 29, 2004 05:10 PM [An unDePendable assessment]
                                    136725, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 06:29 PM [Beautiful]
                                          136728, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 06:49 PM [Friendly Suggestion]
                                                136781, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:21 PM [Get over yourself]
                                          136792, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 06:27 PM
                                                136854, dp1, Jul 03, 2004 11:17 AM [F1]
                                                      136873, fallenone, Jul 03, 2004 07:45 PM [You're trying too hard]
                                                            136887, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 04:31 AM [F1]
                                                                  137004, fallenone, Jul 06, 2004 11:42 PM [reforming the...]
                                    136739, myoung, Jun 29, 2004 08:41 PM [F1]
                                          136740, steve, Jun 29, 2004 09:16 PM
                                          136742, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 11:49 PM [MYoung]
                                                136747, myoung, Jun 30, 2004 03:53 AM [absolutely dp1]
                                                      136751, dp1, Jun 30, 2004 04:57 AM [MYoung]
                                                            136775, myoung, Jul 01, 2004 12:53 PM [uh huh]
                                          136783, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:54 PM [Et tu, brute?]
      136576, tryingtosurvive, Jun 26, 2004 01:25 PM [Cheer up Mate]
            136581, deadmomwalking, Jun 26, 2004 05:28 PM [JAKE]
                  136620, tryingtosurvive, Jun 27, 2004 01:10 PM [Amen to DMW with some reservations.]
                        136634, dp1, Jun 27, 2004 09:36 PM [TTS]
      136817, nolongerhomocidal, Jul 02, 2004 04:04 AM [what about just talking to your PO]
            136831, dp1, Jul 02, 2004 02:00 PM [NLH]
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