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Message 136701 (In Reply to Message 136688)
Listen to What you're Saying


Posted by dp1 on Jun 29, 2004 02:52 AM | Also by dp1
Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States
It is amazing how people on your side brush off things by directing us all to therapy.


There can be nothing more of a brush off in my opinion then to tell a pedophile who is fighting his sexual urges towards children on a daily basis that therapy is ineffective.

If you are a pedophile and know of a more effective method to stop the urges or control them then feel free to disclose that information so we can all learn from your experiences. Until such time, in my opinion, let's leave that up to the experts.

I once made the mistake and called you a level 3 and you quickly corrected me and told me you were a level one. Now it appears you are alluding to being a pedophile. Although I don't recall you ever saying you had sexual desires towards children, I am surprised you quickly discounted professional help for a fellow SO with that infliction. If you are not a pedophile (which I suspect you aren't) then please think about what and who you are talking to before you brush off their problem by minimizing the only possible course of action he can take to help his urges towards molesting more children. This is very crucial for a pedophile with stronge urges. Unless you fight this battle daily like other pedophiles it's unlikely that you'd understand the gravity of the situation.

Balancing one's life is very important as you suggested not just for pedophiles, SO's but all of us. But, when a personal problem becomes compulsive, such as sexual attraction towards children and deviant sexual fantasies it's time to bring in the heavy duty professionals. Friends, co-workers, family, internet buddies just don't cut the mustard. They are all fun and fine, but none of us have the experience in treating pedophilia, plain and simple.

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Message 136688
Therapy doesn't cut it.


Posted by fallenone on Jun 28, 2004 07:34 PM | Also by fallenone
Gender: N/A, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Ohio, Country: United States

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136445, JakeLF, Jun 23, 2004 06:40 AM [Its really hard]
      136466, deadmomwalking, Jun 23, 2004 07:29 PM
            136477, myoung, Jun 24, 2004 01:36 AM [it saddens me]
            136528, JakeLF, Jun 25, 2004 04:29 AM [Thanks for the response]
                  136551, myoung, Jun 25, 2004 04:10 PM [Jake]
                  136558, dp1, Jun 25, 2004 11:22 PM [Jake]
      136508, dp1, Jun 24, 2004 01:31 PM
            136688, fallenone, Jun 28, 2004 07:34 PM [Therapy doesn't cut it.]
                  136701, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 02:52 AM [Listen to What you're Saying]
                        136703, steve, Jun 29, 2004 03:17 AM
                              136722, fallenone, Jun 29, 2004 05:10 PM [An unDePendable assessment]
                                    136725, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 06:29 PM [Beautiful]
                                          136728, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 06:49 PM [Friendly Suggestion]
                                                136781, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:21 PM [Get over yourself]
                                          136792, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 06:27 PM
                                                136854, dp1, Jul 03, 2004 11:17 AM [F1]
                                                      136873, fallenone, Jul 03, 2004 07:45 PM [You're trying too hard]
                                                            136887, dp1, Jul 04, 2004 04:31 AM [F1]
                                                                  137004, fallenone, Jul 06, 2004 11:42 PM [reforming the...]
                                    136739, myoung, Jun 29, 2004 08:41 PM [F1]
                                          136740, steve, Jun 29, 2004 09:16 PM
                                          136742, dp1, Jun 29, 2004 11:49 PM [MYoung]
                                                136747, myoung, Jun 30, 2004 03:53 AM [absolutely dp1]
                                                      136751, dp1, Jun 30, 2004 04:57 AM [MYoung]
                                                            136775, myoung, Jul 01, 2004 12:53 PM [uh huh]
                                          136783, fallenone, Jul 01, 2004 03:54 PM [Et tu, brute?]
      136576, tryingtosurvive, Jun 26, 2004 01:25 PM [Cheer up Mate]
            136581, deadmomwalking, Jun 26, 2004 05:28 PM [JAKE]
                  136620, tryingtosurvive, Jun 27, 2004 01:10 PM [Amen to DMW with some reservations.]
                        136634, dp1, Jun 27, 2004 09:36 PM [TTS]
      136817, nolongerhomocidal, Jul 02, 2004 04:04 AM [what about just talking to your PO]
            136831, dp1, Jul 02, 2004 02:00 PM [NLH]
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