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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Privacy, victrims, and risk. Help.
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Message 173583 (In Reply to Message 173390)
Posted by Quest
on Feb 21, 2006 07:02 PM | Also by Quest
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: Minnesota,
Country: United States |
I should have qualified that. Not all rape victims do this. The ones that have not fully accepted that it wasn't there fault may do this. Child sexual abuse victims may be more vulnerable to behaviors that put them in harm's way because they haven't fully accepted that it was the rapist who decided to use them and had nothing to do with how they looked, or dressed, or how they made themselves vulnerable.
If you think about that it sounds contradictory. If you stay behind locked doors, dress in ankle length flour sacks, and never open up to anyone you wont probably get raped.
But all of us have the right to expect not to get raped or used when we do what humans do to attract proper mates. Teens have the right to wear makeup, dance sexy, and dress any damn way they please.
But there are bad people out there and we need to always consider that when we make that final vulnerable choice to be alone with them.
I think some child abuse victims and rape victims are mesmerized by that hint of aggression and darkness in males and some bad males use that to find victims.
The fact that you do not is good news and indication that you have dealt with it. Let's pass it along.
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Message 173390
Quest
Posted by june5
on Feb 19, 2006 02:40 AM | Also by june5
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
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173177, Quest, Feb 12, 2006 09:09 PM
173202, june5, Feb 13, 2006 03:17 AM
173281, Quest, Feb 15, 2006 01:15 AM
173282, Quest, Feb 15, 2006 01:23 AM
173338, cass117, Feb 18, 2006 02:54 AM [i will take it on]
173346, june5, Feb 18, 2006 03:36 AM [Quest]
173360, Valerie, Feb 18, 2006 06:05 PM
173226, cass117, Feb 13, 2006 09:21 PM
173348, Quest, Feb 18, 2006 05:07 AM
173390, june5, Feb 19, 2006 02:40 AM [Quest]
173583, Quest, Feb 21, 2006 07:02 PM
173392, cass117, Feb 19, 2006 02:42 AM [thankyou for the response]
173493, rebel51, Feb 20, 2006 01:39 PM
173585, Quest, Feb 21, 2006 07:32 PM
173630, june5, Feb 23, 2006 05:05 AM [Sigh]
173653, meli, Feb 23, 2006 06:18 PM
173713, Quest, Feb 24, 2006 04:21 PM
173679, Quest, Feb 23, 2006 10:48 PM
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