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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Privacy, victrims, and risk. Help.
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Message 173226 (In Reply to Message 173177)
Posted by cass117
on Feb 13, 2006 09:21 PM | Also by cass117
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 21 - 29,
State: North Carolina,
Country: United States |
there was a high level of humiliation for me ,even at 9yrs old i would scrub myself red raw just to get what i called the heebie jeebies off me.i was amazing with the secret and every victim is .there is a god given gift called blocking out and i used that constantly even during every day life when the abuse stopped at age 12.it all just goes away.i think sometimes i would have passed a lie detector test.for some reason at 15yrs old i stopped being able to blockout things.it frustrated me so much because i had mastered it and used it all the time.i finally tried to overdose and everything came out.i had and still have serious trust issues .i dont like people staring at me or touching me at all if i dont know them .through therapy this past year i am now able to deal; better with this. i do have guilt and feel obligated to another victim but my first obligation is to myself as should yours with the victim .the statutes ran out on me but it was a family member so i know what they are up to through other relatives.it was such an emotional thing for me and i didnt get alot of support at first so please dont ask too many questions it is hard to discuss early on ,let her come to you but always give supportso she doesnt feel alone.i am so sorry for this situation and the hurt the girl is going through remember it takes a while to get angry so try not to be to emotional around her i always felt like i had to help my family deal with it and it only postponed me getting help.i promise you can live life and live it with no horrible voices in your head saying your bad or what did i do to deserve this,i must have done something wrong. i have healed and hate being referred to as a victim .i am a surviver now and i see all to often abuse victims wallowing in there own self pity i refused to let my abuser hold me in the palm of his hands any longer.it took 10yrs but i did id.good luck to you and i hope this helps.
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Message 173177
Posted by Quest
on Feb 12, 2006 09:09 PM | Also by Quest
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: Minnesota,
Country: United States |
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173177, Quest, Feb 12, 2006 09:09 PM
173202, june5, Feb 13, 2006 03:17 AM
173281, Quest, Feb 15, 2006 01:15 AM
173282, Quest, Feb 15, 2006 01:23 AM
173338, cass117, Feb 18, 2006 02:54 AM [i will take it on]
173346, june5, Feb 18, 2006 03:36 AM [Quest]
173360, Valerie, Feb 18, 2006 06:05 PM
173226, cass117, Feb 13, 2006 09:21 PM
173348, Quest, Feb 18, 2006 05:07 AM
173390, june5, Feb 19, 2006 02:40 AM [Quest]
173583, Quest, Feb 21, 2006 07:02 PM
173392, cass117, Feb 19, 2006 02:42 AM [thankyou for the response]
173493, rebel51, Feb 20, 2006 01:39 PM
173585, Quest, Feb 21, 2006 07:32 PM
173630, june5, Feb 23, 2006 05:05 AM [Sigh]
173653, meli, Feb 23, 2006 06:18 PM
173713, Quest, Feb 24, 2006 04:21 PM
173679, Quest, Feb 23, 2006 10:48 PM
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