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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): What is the next step - need advice
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Message 172275
Posted by username17
on Jan 27, 2006 09:01 PM | Also by username17
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 21 - 29,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
Yesterday, my father in law was accused by his 15 year old daughter of molesting her. This came out in couseling for recent panic attacks. The father in law in out of town till this evening. Mom has spoke with him and instructed him to find another place to live. I was asked to change the locks and take his firearms. I instead removed the firearms from the home and have taken mom and children (2 girls 10 and 15) into my home. Father in law requested that his 19 year old son stay at home to comfort him which he is planning to do. I am not wild about this decision but am not in the mood to argue with anyone. Mom has also had a feeling that this was going on in the past. It is likely that he has molested both of his daughter including my wife. Throughout our marriage my wife has had considerable intimacy issues and panic attacks. This has been very hard on our marriage.
It is taking considerable effort for me to stay calm.
I have a background as an emt and seem to be able to switch to a different mode (calm, collected, and focused) during emergencies but not for this long. Sorry for the tangent - back to the point.
I doubt he will be violent, but instead fear physcological ploys by the father in law. Apearantly he has suggested to his daughters that he will become suicidal if anyone ever found out.
What is the next step? Who gets involved? I am sure that I should still change the locks for when mom returns home.
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