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Message 171740 (In Reply to Message 171725)


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forgive on Jan 21, 2006 07:43 AM | Also by forgive
Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 50 - 59, State: N/A, Country: United States

my post probably sounded harsh. You are quite right, my personal experience has been with a limited number of female counselors, and I come from an unusual, I think, combination of experiences. First , I work in a male prison. I am a female. I work with many male sex offenders, not in the therapy area, however many come to my area and unload, yes, because I am a professional and have some experience.. I am also the mother of a daughter who has been molested and the offender is my husband. I have been to therapy with his group, and I observed the men to be respectful of the female counselor, but quite different when she was unable to be there. I believe I saw more real talking and emotions when she was NOT present. However, I do believe there are times when females are helpful , and show the offenders a different way to look at things. I cannot embrace the idea that there are not differences between the sexes, even though I work for the "state". Sorry- men are visual, women are more emotional . I am surprised that you feel reality is sexist.

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Message 171725
forgive


Posted by dp1 on Jan 21, 2006 02:00 AM | Also by dp1
Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States


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171682, Valerie, Jan 20, 2006 03:36 PM
      171715, forgive, Jan 20, 2006 10:13 PM
            171725, dp1, Jan 21, 2006 02:00 AM [forgive]
                  171740, forgive, Jan 21, 2006 07:43 AM
                        171798, dp1, Jan 21, 2006 04:39 PM
                        171800, dp1, Jan 21, 2006 04:48 PM [Forgive]
                        171830, Valerie, Jan 22, 2006 12:14 AM
                              172392, forgive, Jan 29, 2006 08:30 PM
                        171947, Quest, Jan 23, 2006 11:54 PM
                              171965, Valerie, Jan 24, 2006 03:05 AM
                              171973, june5, Jan 24, 2006 03:43 AM
                                    172012, Quest, Jan 24, 2006 05:44 PM
                                    172098, dp1, Jan 25, 2006 03:45 PM [June]
                              171991, dp1, Jan 24, 2006 04:58 AM
                                    172013, Quest, Jan 24, 2006 05:45 PM
                                    172014, Quest, Jan 24, 2006 05:48 PM
                                          172110, dp1, Jan 25, 2006 04:29 PM [quest]
                                    172394, forgive, Jan 29, 2006 08:45 PM [to 171991]
                                          172401, dp1, Jan 30, 2006 02:16 AM [forgive]
                                                172488, forgive, Feb 01, 2006 12:30 AM
                                                      172500, dp1, Feb 01, 2006 02:18 PM
                                          172456, Valerie, Jan 31, 2006 03:31 PM
                                                172487, forgive, Feb 01, 2006 12:20 AM
                                                      172505, Quest, Feb 01, 2006 04:33 PM
                                                      172509, Valerie, Feb 01, 2006 06:47 PM
                                                            172868, rebel51, Feb 08, 2006 07:28 AM
                              172111, dp1, Jan 25, 2006 04:34 PM [quest]
                                    172134, Quest, Jan 25, 2006 06:35 PM
                                          172184, cass117, Jan 26, 2006 02:43 PM [male therapists]
                                                172209, Quest, Jan 26, 2006 10:11 PM

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