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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): For those who have been thru the system?
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Message 171715 (In Reply to Message 171682)
Posted by forgive
on Jan 20, 2006 10:13 PM | Also by forgive
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
I will be glad to respond to your good questions.I am not sorry that the judicial system was in place and "took over" as was in our case. I say "our" because I am the mother, my daughter is the victor. We have gone through this together all the way-she does NOT choose the word victim to be suitable for her..Her thoughts., not mine, and I am so proud of her for taking this attitude. No overkill , no under kill. I have no complaints about the system until they started messing with the laws to "protect" the public , like the 2000 ft laws. (What a bunch of hooey). The system is what forced my husband into group therapy and caused him to come to grips with his crime, and the thinking errors that are so rampant with SO's. But, make no mistake about it, GOD is the only reason we have survived and come out on this end, healthy and healing. GOD and forgiveness, not because he asked to be forgiven- but because to NOT forgive means giving him, my husband, the power to control me, and my emotions. . . . NO thanks- Yes, Val, I am always cautious, but not paranoid. To forgive , does NOT mean to forget. That would be foolish. Thank you for asking. One more thought- our "system" here includes a female counselor for group therapy. This is SO wrong. They have NO business counseling and listening to men talk about their offenses , and the offenders who are in the groups are not nearly as open as they are when there is a male leading.(this last thought in regards to the "system" and how it works.)
That about does it this time-
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Message 171682
Posted by Valerie
on Jan 20, 2006 03:36 PM | Also by Valerie
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: Florida,
Country: United States |
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171682, Valerie, Jan 20, 2006 03:36 PM
171715, forgive, Jan 20, 2006 10:13 PM
171725, dp1, Jan 21, 2006 02:00 AM [forgive]
171740, forgive, Jan 21, 2006 07:43 AM
171798, dp1, Jan 21, 2006 04:39 PM
171800, dp1, Jan 21, 2006 04:48 PM [Forgive]
171830, Valerie, Jan 22, 2006 12:14 AM
172392, forgive, Jan 29, 2006 08:30 PM
171947, Quest, Jan 23, 2006 11:54 PM
171965, Valerie, Jan 24, 2006 03:05 AM
171973, june5, Jan 24, 2006 03:43 AM
172012, Quest, Jan 24, 2006 05:44 PM
172098, dp1, Jan 25, 2006 03:45 PM [June]
171991, dp1, Jan 24, 2006 04:58 AM
172013, Quest, Jan 24, 2006 05:45 PM
172014, Quest, Jan 24, 2006 05:48 PM
172110, dp1, Jan 25, 2006 04:29 PM [quest]
172394, forgive, Jan 29, 2006 08:45 PM [to 171991]
172401, dp1, Jan 30, 2006 02:16 AM [forgive]
172488, forgive, Feb 01, 2006 12:30 AM
172500, dp1, Feb 01, 2006 02:18 PM
172456, Valerie, Jan 31, 2006 03:31 PM
172487, forgive, Feb 01, 2006 12:20 AM
172505, Quest, Feb 01, 2006 04:33 PM
172509, Valerie, Feb 01, 2006 06:47 PM
172868, rebel51, Feb 08, 2006 07:28 AM
172111, dp1, Jan 25, 2006 04:34 PM [quest]
172134, Quest, Jan 25, 2006 06:35 PM
172184, cass117, Jan 26, 2006 02:43 PM [male therapists]
172209, Quest, Jan 26, 2006 10:11 PM
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