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Message 170720 (In Reply to Message 170247)

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Jan 06, 2006 03:34 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

that would be the worse thing that could happen. especially right from the beginning. Maybe after the child has had therapy for some time. But not from the beginning. Get real, quest. The beginning of all this is the most difficult time for a victim, especially a child. i can't even believe that you think it would be good for a victim to be in therapy with the offender. Maybe stand up to an offender, not necessarily the one that hurt them, but not right from the beginning. That just shows how insensitive people are to victims.

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Message 170247

Posted by Quest on Dec 30, 2005 03:27 AM | Also by Quest

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 50 - 59, State: Minnesota, Country: United States

Sometimes it can be a good idea. Sometimes it is the stupidest thing you could ever do. It depends. 
 What it depends on is the wishes of the victim. Not on the perceived need of the victim but on what the victim wants.
   In one case we have a young girl who  loves her father and her father is swirling down an alcoholic hellhole and making some disturbing advances. Say mom died last year. The girl is dying to talk and tells her best friends who reports it. Six cop cars show up that night red lights  sirens blasting and the girl  loses the remainder of what she knows to be her life.
   Another case you have a bullying wife and childbeating man  who has molested his daughter since her memory started. The state forces her to sit down with him in counciling and she knows he's going to get her for this.
     This whole thing is about VICTIMS. They know what is right for them. What they can handle. The first call after child sexual abuse comes to light needs to be to a lawyer for the victim and the second to a confidential counselor with some experience and no axe to grind. The three of them make the ground rules for what happens next. No one else has the right to do this. From that moment on the child should never be without legal and psychological council. 
    Child sexual abuse turns a kids world upside down. The state then takes that world and shakes it like a rattle until the pieces fall out. People with agendas and looks of pity  rape the raped over and over.
   Victims rights.

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170085, anti, Dec 28, 2005 03:38 AM [did anyone see it tonight?]
      170116, Valerie, Dec 28, 2005 04:49 PM
            170128, anti, Dec 28, 2005 06:46 PM [val]
                  170171, Valerie, Dec 29, 2005 12:39 PM
                        170217, Quest, Dec 29, 2005 05:57 PM
                              170227, PVulcan, Dec 29, 2005 08:13 PM
                                    170247, Quest, Dec 30, 2005 03:27 AM
                                          170276, PVulcan, Dec 30, 2005 06:29 PM
                                                170293, Quest, Dec 30, 2005 11:06 PM [here we go again]
                                                      170303, steve, Dec 31, 2005 12:11 AM
                                                      170304, PVulcan, Dec 31, 2005 12:35 AM
                                                            170343, Quest, Dec 31, 2005 04:11 PM
                                                                  170366, PVulcan, Dec 31, 2005 08:43 PM
                                                                        170372, Quest, Jan 01, 2006 01:32 AM
                                                                              170402, PVulcan, Jan 01, 2006 07:59 PM [quest]
                                                                                    170412, Quest, Jan 01, 2006 10:16 PM
                                                                                          170425, PVulcan, Jan 02, 2006 07:04 AM
                                                                                                170723, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:47 PM [...]
                                                                              170403, PVulcan, Jan 01, 2006 08:40 PM
                                                                                    170413, Quest, Jan 01, 2006 10:20 PM
                                                                                          170426, PVulcan, Jan 02, 2006 07:06 AM
                                                                                                170459, Quest, Jan 02, 2006 07:14 PM
                                                                                                      170464, PVulcan, Jan 02, 2006 09:02 PM
                                                                                    170414, Quest, Jan 01, 2006 10:31 PM
                                                            170722, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:40 PM
                                                170721, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:35 PM [PVulcan]
                                          170720, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:34 PM
                              170719, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:27 PM [quest and all]

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