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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): what do you do? Switch to Flat View
Message 169250 (In Reply to Message 169139) i don't do enough
Posted by Quest
on Dec 11, 2005 08:16 PM | Also by Quest
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: Minnesota,
Country: United States |
Basically I'm completely rethinking the psychology of human beings with a specialization in child sexual abuse. I read books. Read forums. Interview victims and offenders.
I'm trying to build models of populations of victims, abusers, and normal people and specifically a model for the both perp and victim of child sexual abuse. I will write books if I don't smoke myself to death. The first book I want to write will contain interviews with victim/perp pairs and analysis of each situation. But I am a long way off.
I study biochemistry and neuroscience at a masters level and the field of evolutionary psychology in whatever way I can get my hands on material.
I apply life-experience, current studies, and our limited knowledge of neuroscience and evolution to sexuality.
Why not leave it to the professionals? I don't trust them anymore. I know of no one who is using my approach and I think I can offer some brand new ideas. The field I am applying, evolutionary psychology, is brand new and has not yet been applied to this problem.
So I'm in input mode but I output a lot of ideas on forums and gather responses. I'm hoping my pre-mature output will generate some ideas in others and maybe soften the effect that being one of the pair, perp or victim, has had on people's lives. That's not exactly right. I want to make people feel better about what they are going through. I walk with delicate balance between both sides and endeavor to reduce hate and repair lives.
In my spare time I'm trying to find out if the guys that gang-raped my niece are still gang raping little kids. None of them are RSO's.
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Message 169139 what do you do to help?
Posted by anti
on Dec 10, 2005 06:53 PM | Also by anti
| Gender: N/A,
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Thread 169139, anti, Dec 10, 2005 06:53 PM [what do you do to help?] 169171, deadmomwalking, Dec 10, 2005 11:24 PM [helping victims] 169688, anti, Dec 17, 2005 08:24 PM [to deadmomwalking..] 169179, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 11, 2005 01:04 AM [anti] 169689, anti, Dec 17, 2005 08:26 PM [thank you..] 169229, steve, Dec 11, 2005 06:16 PM 169248, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 11, 2005 08:05 PM [steve] 169690, anti, Dec 17, 2005 08:27 PM [noSteve...] 170071, steve, Dec 27, 2005 05:05 PM 170073, anti, Dec 27, 2005 05:33 PM [To Steve,] 170077, dp1, Dec 27, 2005 07:29 PM 170084, anti, Dec 28, 2005 03:27 AM [dp, cool....] 170105, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 28, 2005 02:17 PM [dp1] 169250, Quest, Dec 11, 2005 08:16 PM [i don't do enough] 169270, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 12, 2005 02:47 AM [quest] 169349, Quest, Dec 13, 2005 03:10 AM 169691, anti, Dec 17, 2005 08:28 PM [I do comend you..] 169264, Valerie, Dec 11, 2005 11:05 PM 169266, PVulcan, Dec 11, 2005 11:49 PM 169285, rebel51, Dec 12, 2005 01:23 PM 170130, anti, Dec 28, 2005 07:49 PM [listening...] 170175, rebel51, Dec 29, 2005 01:28 PM 170193, Valerie, Dec 29, 2005 02:42 PM 170210, anti, Dec 29, 2005 04:56 PM [val...] 169291, Pending Further Review 169692, anti, Dec 17, 2005 08:30 PM [val, then you are...] 170067, Valerie, Dec 27, 2005 02:17 PM 170072, dp1, Dec 27, 2005 05:17 PM 170076, anti, Dec 27, 2005 05:54 PM [no dp, sorry..] 170074, anti, Dec 27, 2005 05:35 PM [Val, yes] 170106, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 28, 2005 02:23 PM [a serious question] 170127, anti, Dec 28, 2005 06:35 PM [never...] 170117, Valerie, Dec 28, 2005 05:01 PM 170126, anti, Dec 28, 2005 06:34 PM [Val...] 170133, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 28, 2005 09:02 PM [valerie]
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