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Message 168780 (In Reply to Message 168764)

Posted by dp1 on Dec 07, 2005 05:59 PM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

Thanks Steve. I appreciate you verbalizing what I may have failed to do in the past. In an effort to depersonalize this issue and address the high risk of dating RSO I have started a new thread to talk about the responsible things we as adults can do to minimize the possibility of reoffenses.

I also would like to say to Jen that I am sorry if I touched on a nerve here. I get a little nervous when I see high risk situations. Let's talk about ways we can reduce the risks.

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Message 168764

Posted by steve on Dec 07, 2005 05:05 PM | Also by steve

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Virginia, Country: United States

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">me personally, I couldn't imagine getting up everyday of my life knowing I have chosen to engage in a relationship with some one who literally has been documented as having a sexual preference for a baby</span></blockquote>

We're working with limited information, but based on what we do know there is a possibility he is a situational child molester, not a pedophile with a sexual preference for children or propensity to act on an attraction to them, but I agree that jenclink or anyone in a relationship with someone who has sexually abused a child, needs to be cognizant of the risks.  Further, since she's a victim of sexual abuse as a young child, rape as a teen and is still in her teens herself (I believe she said she was 19 in a past post), she may have benefit from therapy for her past victimizations and desire to make what I believe is a fairly short-term relationship with this man work.  jenclink, I haven't reviewed your previous posts so my apologies if I'm misinformed or ignorant of relevant information you may have shared.  I don't think anyone here is trying to beat you up, but I think some are giving you some tough love in an effort to ensure that you consider all aspects of your current situation and future.

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168130, jenclink, Nov 27, 2005 11:22 PM
      168195, Valerie, Nov 29, 2005 12:29 PM
            168281, jenclink, Nov 30, 2005 09:15 AM
            168557, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:14 AM [jenclink]
      168214, deadmomwalking, Nov 29, 2005 06:09 PM
            168280, jenclink, Nov 30, 2005 09:01 AM
                  168387, dp1, Dec 01, 2005 04:44 PM
                        168447, jenclink, Dec 02, 2005 08:15 PM
                              168453, PVulcan, Dec 02, 2005 09:00 PM
                                    168559, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:21 AM [jenclink]
                        168463, jenclink, Dec 02, 2005 10:12 PM
                              168515, dp1, Dec 03, 2005 06:59 PM
                                    168521, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 08:57 PM
                                          168560, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:23 AM [jenclink]
                                                168636, dp1, Dec 05, 2005 12:37 PM
                  168558, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:18 AM [my daughter]
      168273, myoung, Nov 30, 2005 07:46 AM [courage]
            168347, dp1, Dec 01, 2005 03:16 AM
                  168448, jenclink, Dec 02, 2005 08:18 PM
                        168514, dp1, Dec 03, 2005 06:53 PM
                              168518, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 08:36 PM
                                    168574, dp1, Dec 04, 2005 06:51 AM
                              168561, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:26 AM [jenclink]
                                    168635, dp1, Dec 05, 2005 12:35 PM
                                    168725, Valerie, Dec 07, 2005 01:42 PM
                                          168764, steve, Dec 07, 2005 05:05 PM
                                                168780, dp1, Dec 07, 2005 05:59 PM
      168305, dp1, Nov 30, 2005 08:47 PM [Jen]
            168455, PVulcan, Dec 02, 2005 09:29 PM
                  168511, dp1, Dec 03, 2005 06:27 PM
                        168526, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 09:42 PM
                              168573, dp1, Dec 04, 2005 06:31 AM
      168462, anti, Dec 02, 2005 10:10 PM [why?]
            168519, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 08:37 PM
                  168658, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 05, 2005 04:37 PM [jenclink]

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