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Message 168573 (In Reply to Message 168526)

Posted by dp1 on Dec 04, 2005 06:31 AM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe I'm testing myself and my strength by dating a RSO?

Of course. That's exactly what I think. You don't need to test yourself to prove you are strong. If you've forgiven those that have wronged you then so be it. If people don't believe you then that's their issue. Alcoholics don't have to go to a bar and order a coke to prove they quit drinking. Not going to a bar works too.

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Message 168526

Posted by jenclink on Dec 03, 2005 09:42 PM | Also by jenclink

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Washington, Country: United States

My boyfriend has never once hit me, raped me or anything.  Hes told me nothing but the truth and has treated me like a queen.  His counselor, PO and everyone else I talked to pretty much said that there is no chance hes doing it again.  They said it was the result of a stupid, depressed teenage boy.

I'm done explaining this.  The family forgave him.  Weathly, middle class, white family forgave him.  They even said it was a HORRIBLE mistake that they even think he won't do again.  The family in my opinion are really the only ones who matter.  If they forgave him, great.  I honestly do not care what you think of me anymore, dp1.  Think of me as a stupid young woman, I honestly don't care.

The other thing is (and I know I've mentioned this before), they're naming their newborn son after him.  You're right, maybe I'm being an idiot for not being a cold, unforgiving person dp1.  But thats not who I am.  If I saw my offenders today I would tell them exactly what my blog said.  I forgive them.  I don't hate them.  Even my rapist who made it so I can't have children.  Hating people, even RSOs, doesn't get you anywhere in life.  Thats what holds you back.  Have you ever stopped to think that maybe I'm testing myself and my strength by dating a RSO?  No.  You just think I'm degrading myself.  I'm not.

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168130, jenclink, Nov 27, 2005 11:22 PM
      168195, Valerie, Nov 29, 2005 12:29 PM
            168281, jenclink, Nov 30, 2005 09:15 AM
            168557, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:14 AM [jenclink]
      168214, deadmomwalking, Nov 29, 2005 06:09 PM
            168280, jenclink, Nov 30, 2005 09:01 AM
                  168387, dp1, Dec 01, 2005 04:44 PM
                        168447, jenclink, Dec 02, 2005 08:15 PM
                              168453, PVulcan, Dec 02, 2005 09:00 PM
                                    168559, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:21 AM [jenclink]
                        168463, jenclink, Dec 02, 2005 10:12 PM
                              168515, dp1, Dec 03, 2005 06:59 PM
                                    168521, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 08:57 PM
                                          168560, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:23 AM [jenclink]
                                                168636, dp1, Dec 05, 2005 12:37 PM
                  168558, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:18 AM [my daughter]
      168273, myoung, Nov 30, 2005 07:46 AM [courage]
            168347, dp1, Dec 01, 2005 03:16 AM
                  168448, jenclink, Dec 02, 2005 08:18 PM
                        168514, dp1, Dec 03, 2005 06:53 PM
                              168518, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 08:36 PM
                                    168574, dp1, Dec 04, 2005 06:51 AM
                              168561, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 04, 2005 02:26 AM [jenclink]
                                    168635, dp1, Dec 05, 2005 12:35 PM
                                    168725, Valerie, Dec 07, 2005 01:42 PM
                                          168764, steve, Dec 07, 2005 05:05 PM
                                                168780, dp1, Dec 07, 2005 05:59 PM
      168305, dp1, Nov 30, 2005 08:47 PM [Jen]
            168455, PVulcan, Dec 02, 2005 09:29 PM
                  168511, dp1, Dec 03, 2005 06:27 PM
                        168526, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 09:42 PM
                              168573, dp1, Dec 04, 2005 06:31 AM
      168462, anti, Dec 02, 2005 10:10 PM [why?]
            168519, jenclink, Dec 03, 2005 08:37 PM
                  168658, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 05, 2005 04:37 PM [jenclink]

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