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Message 167795 (In Reply to Message 167724)

Posted by rebel51 on Nov 22, 2005 08:44 AM | Also by rebel51

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 50 - 59, State: California, Country: United States

Hello and welcome to the forum.
I am so sorry to hear about what happened to your sister. It is a sad state of affairs when you are not safe even at school.
I would start by going to your local police and telling them what happened. However I bet that it has been too long now and that there is not anything that can be done as far as getting the molester. You can still help your sister though..just be there for her to talk to when she needs to talk. If you feel that she is very disturbed by what happened still then maybe a little therapy is in order. It is amazing how things can still bother you after years and years. Sometimes you just need someone to say that it is "ok" to feel this way or that it is "ok" to react that way, and a trained therapist would know some of the things that your sister needs to hear. I guess that the main thing is just to stay strong for her.
Good luck and God Bless.

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Message 167724

Posted by sisterseekinghelp on Nov 21, 2005 08:57 AM | Also by sisterseekinghelp

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 21 - 29, State: Ohio, Country: United States

My sister is 37 years old, and she just revealed to the family 2 years ago that she was molested by her kindergarten teacher in 1974. the family is devestated.  my sister is physically disabled, and in the 1970s the school districts did not what to do with handicapped children. as a result, she was placed in a class with autistic children who did nothing but lay on mats all day. my sister is and was fully competent, and she remembers everything the teacher did to her and the others. it is sad, because almost all of the children abused either cannot remember what happened to them, could not see the teacher because they were blind, are mentally incompetent, or even dead.

I need help finding this man. I am sure that he is retired by now. I can not get any information from the school districts because of the privacy act. how do you find an offender? my sister is sick, and she has already lived beyond her life expectancy. she is such a special person and she deserves justice!

can anyone give me any advice whatsoever? please!

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167724, sisterseekinghelp, Nov 21, 2005 08:57 AM
      167781, deadmomwalking, Nov 22, 2005 02:33 AM
            169044, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 09, 2005 04:41 PM [sisterseekinghelp]
      167795, rebel51, Nov 22, 2005 08:44 AM
      167878, Valerie, Nov 22, 2005 11:15 PM
            168972, anti, Dec 08, 2005 06:50 PM [exactly val...]

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