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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Are you in contact with your abuser?
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Message 167063 (In Reply to Message 167016)
Posted by joy1234
on Nov 10, 2005 01:51 PM | Also by joy1234
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 40 - 49,
State: New York,
Country: United States |
Thank you for even trying to understand where my head is at. I just feel that most people who were in contact with their abusers because they chose to would be very intimidated to answer the question because of her views. I am not very comfortable in this day and age letting people know that I resumed a relationship with my abuser. I have gotten the feeling from some people that they don't approve and they find it discusting that I would be able to relate to SO"S. No I don't agree that it is ok to molest anyone and if I heard someone say they thought it was ok, I would step up to bat and put them in their place. Believe me I would like to see all abuse stopped and like you, I think education, awareness and better treatment programs will help very much. Unfortunaltly I see more of the issues being driven by fear and anger than by common sense and sometimes the people who believe they are doing a good thing can also be hurting their own cause. You are the first one to come out in the victims corner and say something really productive to me and I don't feel the undertones of anger and discust for me in your posts. I appreciate that. I don't expect that alot of victims could ever imagine talking to their abusers but it does happen, and it takes alot of work to get to that point, it was an internal battle for me, up to that point I could not be objective in issues of sexual abuse, so I understand the anger and rage, and distrust people feel. What I don't think anybody see's is what happens when you come out on the other end, the acceptance and the ability to be able to forgive, to be able to be objective with a issue that is so serious. I am sorry for your child, I hope he or she can heal and be a happy person.
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Message 167016
Posted by deadmomwalking
on Nov 09, 2005 08:21 PM | Also by deadmomwalking
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: N/A,
Country: Canada |
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166798, Valerie, Nov 07, 2005 06:34 PM
166828, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 08:50 PM [valerie]
166844, Valerie, Nov 08, 2005 12:51 AM
166901, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:39 PM [valerie]
166904, joy1234, Nov 08, 2005 01:47 PM
167016, deadmomwalking, Nov 09, 2005 08:21 PM
167063, joy1234, Nov 10, 2005 01:51 PM
167113, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 10, 2005 08:24 PM [joy and deadmomwalking]
167723, sisterseekinghelp, Nov 21, 2005 08:44 AM [he silently disappeared]
167877, Valerie, Nov 22, 2005 11:11 PM
166921, Valerie, Nov 08, 2005 05:20 PM
166982, rebel51, Nov 09, 2005 09:36 AM
167015, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 09, 2005 08:11 PM [valerie]
166960, joy1234, Nov 08, 2005 10:22 PM
167078, PVulcan, Nov 10, 2005 04:36 PM
167264, jenclink, Nov 14, 2005 10:44 AM
167324, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 15, 2005 02:52 PM [jenclink]
167337, steve, Nov 15, 2005 03:43 PM
167386, Valerie, Nov 16, 2005 01:26 AM
167413, rebel51, Nov 16, 2005 10:14 AM
167420, deadmomwalking, Nov 16, 2005 02:26 PM
167421, Rejected
167131, Valerie, Nov 11, 2005 12:46 PM
167247, joy1234, Nov 13, 2005 01:03 PM
167289, deadmomwalking, Nov 15, 2005 03:23 AM
167326, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 15, 2005 02:57 PM [deadmomwalking]
167325, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 15, 2005 02:54 PM [joy]
167244, mawmaw, Nov 13, 2005 07:54 AM
167327, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 15, 2005 03:00 PM [mawmaw]
167510, mawmaw, Nov 17, 2005 09:11 PM
167529, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 18, 2005 02:19 AM [mawmaw]
167617, Valerie, Nov 19, 2005 03:26 PM
170302, FIREFLYBABE, Dec 30, 2005 11:59 PM [Yes, I'm married to him!]
170307, anti, Dec 31, 2005 01:43 AM [re you being the victim?]
170371, Quest, Jan 01, 2006 01:26 AM
170399, dp1, Jan 01, 2006 06:31 PM [Quest]
170420, Quest, Jan 02, 2006 03:22 AM
170427, dp1, Jan 02, 2006 09:01 AM
170460, Quest, Jan 02, 2006 08:24 PM
170713, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:09 PM
170442, anti, Jan 02, 2006 05:09 PM [exellent dp, really........]
170461, Quest, Jan 02, 2006 08:30 PM
170488, dp1, Jan 03, 2006 01:51 AM
170505, Quest, Jan 03, 2006 05:25 AM
170711, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:05 PM [dp1]
170336, dp1, Dec 31, 2005 01:55 PM
170362, anti, Dec 31, 2005 07:44 PM [dp]
170714, momhelpingbyherself, Jan 06, 2006 03:13 PM
170747, forgive, Jan 06, 2006 10:23 PM
170757, anti, Jan 07, 2006 04:35 AM [to forgive..]
170773, Valerie, Jan 07, 2006 01:52 PM
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