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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Safe Haven For Victims and Families and those who aren't sure if they witnessed one
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Message 169925 (In Reply to Message 166353)
A bit Confused...
Posted by ForeverTomorrow
on Dec 23, 2005 01:58 AM | Also by ForeverTomorrow
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 18 - 20,
State: Minnesota,
Country: United States |
Well, I suppose I could share my story. I really havent given it much thought. I was in 6th grade when it stopped (I'm in 11th as of now), the cops took me out of class and harrassed me for answers to questions that they would not ask (they just said, "you know what happened, tell us"...I did not know what they were talking about I might add, so I was terrified). I really cant give you a time when it started. I know I was not the only victim however. I do not remember the abuse so I do not know if it has effected me at all (though I'm diagnosed with Post Tramatic Stress Syndrom). I do not however hold this abuse against the person who did it. I forgive it, he's in jail and serving consequences. However, he was also a victim. I'm sure this is quite common. Please do not misunderstand me, I believe what he did was wrong and he doesnt have excuses. I just think that maybe if those who hurt him would have been stopped (because they were girls this wasnt possible, plus this was a long time ago) he might not have continued the path. Just my bit of rambeling, I'd enjoy to hear from anyone back. (Oh, and I have the flu so I'm quite out there at the moment, dont mind me if a lot that I've said doesnt make a lot of sense..)
Oh, and why I posted here. I use the word "victim" because its common. But, I still do believe the lies I was told, though I shall never repeat what they were because they were disturbing.
Also, part of the reason I mentioned that he was a victim is because many wont admit guys can be victims as well.
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Message 166353
All Victims and Families, advocates, and those who aren't sure if they saw a crime welcomed
Posted by momhelpingbyherself
on Nov 03, 2005 08:34 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 40 - 49,
State: Kentucky,
Country: United States |
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166353, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 03, 2005 08:34 PM [All Victims and Families, advocates, a...]
166411, deadmomwalking, Nov 04, 2005 03:22 AM
166457, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:55 PM [deadmomwalking and dp1]
166511, dp1, Nov 05, 2005 03:20 AM [Momhelping]
166633, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 12:11 AM [dp1]
167114, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 10, 2005 08:32 PM [deadmomwalking]
166429, Navigatr1, Nov 04, 2005 12:46 PM [On Right Track]
166458, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:56 PM [navigatr1]
166449, dp1, Nov 04, 2005 03:27 PM
166454, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:51 PM [i need to make a correction]
166456, anti, Nov 04, 2005 03:54 PM [cool...]
166634, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 12:13 AM [anti]
166684, Valerie, Nov 06, 2005 05:48 PM
166688, PVulcan, Nov 06, 2005 06:06 PM
166693, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 06:19 PM [PVulcan]
166690, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 06:11 PM [valerie]
166692, Valerie, Nov 06, 2005 06:19 PM
168379, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 01, 2005 03:50 PM [since my pc has been down i am ...]
166737, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Nov 07, 2005 01:46 AM [Sitting on The Fence]
166744, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 03:10 AM [dothecrimedothetime]
166751, dp1, Nov 07, 2005 03:35 AM
166753, dp1, Nov 07, 2005 03:53 AM
166760, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Nov 07, 2005 06:10 AM
166782, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 04:20 PM [dp1 and dothecrimedothetime]
166863, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 02:23 AM [Momhelping]
166902, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:43 PM [dp1]
168380, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 01, 2005 03:55 PM [dothecrimedothetime]
168870, steve, Dec 08, 2005 04:34 AM
169856, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 21, 2005 02:38 PM [steve]
166815, Valerie, Nov 07, 2005 07:51 PM
166823, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 08:27 PM [valerie]
166846, Valerie, Nov 08, 2005 12:54 AM
166903, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:45 PM [valerie]
169925, ForeverTomorrow, Dec 23, 2005 01:58 AM [A bit Confused...]
170018, Valerie, Dec 24, 2005 06:18 PM
170021, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 24, 2005 08:05 PM [forevertomorrow]
170169, rebel51, Dec 29, 2005 12:22 PM
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