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Message 168380 (In Reply to Message 166737)
dothecrimedothetime

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Dec 01, 2005 03:55 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

i am glad to see that you were here in my absense. and thanks for your wonderful post. and yes, sometimes the dog that bites your butt, this is my own way off putting it, can help for some people, but its also a double bladed sword. and Yes by all means, venting is healthy. and it needs to be done, vent, vent vent. If by some chance you don't want a SO, etc, to reply to your post, simply put that in your subject line, but there are some very knowledable and sympathectic ones here and after awhile you will know who they are.

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Message 166737
Sitting on The Fence

Posted by DoTheCrimeDoTheTime on Nov 07, 2005 01:46 AM | Also by DoTheCrimeDoTheTime

Gender: N/A, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

As a Probation Officer, sometimes I sit on the fence, wondering what side do I belong.

Well, I am a victim, family member, concerned citizen, SO  sympathizer (at times) yadda, yadda, yadda.

I post in all forums.  For Victims and Survivors, my  personal belief is that this forum is for those who seek help or need a place to vent.  It is very healthy to vent.  If you have questions or problems, then, this should be a safe haven to post.

I have quite a few hour and a background in the legal system.  So post away here.  I will add my 2 cents and offer help or guidance.  You may not always like what I have to say, but maybe you will get a better understanding of "why" things didn't happen the way you would like.

For those new here, document, document, document your experiences or events.  Gotta love those digital cameras or cell phones that take photos.  Those can you your best friend.

Like many, I have become disillusioned with the forum.  I will not post to some members here.  I choose to ignore many due to the  inappropriate comments or lengthily rants they post.  I will lurk and  peep in, but will no longer post comments other than in this forum or when I have something positive to offer.

TO VICTIMS OR FRIENDS:  DO NOT  HESITATE TO POST HERE.  THERE IS AN INCREDIBLE AMOUNT OF EXPERIENCES, AND INFORMATION HERE FROM "POSITIVE POSTERS"  THAT WILL OFFER ADVICE OR HELP.  PLEASE KEEP IT COMING.  JUST BECAUSE THIS SITE IS CALLED SEXCRIMINALS. COM, DOES NOT MEAN   THIS IS AN INVITATION FOR SEX OFFENDERS ONLY.   YOU MAY BE OUTNUMBERED IN POST, BUT NOT IN REALITY.  WE KNOW YOU ARE OUT THERE AND ARE FAR MORE OF YOU THERE THAN ARE SEX OFFENDERS.

Lastly, there are some sex offenders that post here that have a great deal of information that they can provide here.  Do not let the fact that they are sex offenders keep you from posting.

Sometimes the hair of the dog that bit you can be the best medicine.  If you know what the poison is, than you can best find the ant-venom.

Please feel free to PM me if you have any questions.

DTCDTT

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166353, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 03, 2005 08:34 PM [All Victims and Families, advocates, a...]
      166411, deadmomwalking, Nov 04, 2005 03:22 AM
            166457, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:55 PM [deadmomwalking and dp1]
                  166511, dp1, Nov 05, 2005 03:20 AM [Momhelping]
                        166633, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 12:11 AM [dp1]
            167114, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 10, 2005 08:32 PM [deadmomwalking]
      166429, Navigatr1, Nov 04, 2005 12:46 PM [On Right Track]
            166458, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:56 PM [navigatr1]
      166449, dp1, Nov 04, 2005 03:27 PM
      166454, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:51 PM [i need to make a correction]
      166456, anti, Nov 04, 2005 03:54 PM [cool...]
            166634, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 12:13 AM [anti]
      166684, Valerie, Nov 06, 2005 05:48 PM
            166688, PVulcan, Nov 06, 2005 06:06 PM
                  166693, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 06:19 PM [PVulcan]
            166690, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 06:11 PM [valerie]
      166692, Valerie, Nov 06, 2005 06:19 PM
            168379, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 01, 2005 03:50 PM [since my pc has been down i am ...]
      166737, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Nov 07, 2005 01:46 AM [Sitting on The Fence]
            166744, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 03:10 AM [dothecrimedothetime]
            166751, dp1, Nov 07, 2005 03:35 AM
            166753, dp1, Nov 07, 2005 03:53 AM
                  166760, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Nov 07, 2005 06:10 AM
                        166782, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 04:20 PM [dp1 and dothecrimedothetime]
                              166863, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 02:23 AM [Momhelping]
                                    166902, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:43 PM [dp1]
            168380, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 01, 2005 03:55 PM [dothecrimedothetime]
                  168870, steve, Dec 08, 2005 04:34 AM
                        169856, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 21, 2005 02:38 PM [steve]
      166815, Valerie, Nov 07, 2005 07:51 PM
            166823, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 08:27 PM [valerie]
      166846, Valerie, Nov 08, 2005 12:54 AM
            166903, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:45 PM [valerie]
      169925, ForeverTomorrow, Dec 23, 2005 01:58 AM [A bit Confused...]
            170018, Valerie, Dec 24, 2005 06:18 PM
            170021, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 24, 2005 08:05 PM [forevertomorrow]
            170169, rebel51, Dec 29, 2005 12:22 PM

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Thread (Discussion): Safe Haven For Victims and Families and those who aren't sure if they witnessed one

Message 168380 (In Reply to Message 166737)
dothecrimedothetime

Message 166737
Sitting on The Fence