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Message 167114 (In Reply to Message 166411)
deadmomwalking

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Nov 10, 2005 08:32 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

i will tell you what is unfair deadmomwalking, is knowing that i was sat up, all because i went and turned in my stepfather for what he did to my daughter. I will admit that it was my fault for driving, i don't ususally do that. but my family, or so called lack of one made sure i got caught, and put in jail. and their grand daughter or niece could have been with me. i was one block from home, not in the limits of city police, never read my rights, until court yesterday. and its just all to concidental than i can even go into on here. but oh well. i can still walk, although i may get ticketed for jay walking. lol..

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Message 166411

Posted by deadmomwalking on Nov 04, 2005 03:22 AM | Also by deadmomwalking

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 50 - 59, State: N/A, Country: Canada

Thanks for your efforts, mom.  I know you've had quite the time of it.  It was a bit unfair of me to run off and leave you to deal with it all.  I will try and respond to newcomers when  I think can help, but I may choose to PM them as I have often done before.  I would publicly like to thank the many SO's and people like Silverthorne who have offered support and respectful advice on this forum. I am sorry that in my anger at certain posts here I lumped you in with the people I was angry with.  I hope that victims who are ready or willing to do so will feel comfortable talking about broader issues on the Main Forum.  And I hope people like Silverthorne who has been a victim of CSA and  who may be attracted to children but has never acted on it and condemns such activity, will still be available if someone needs advice.

I know there are some, even on the victim side that probably don't agree with these changes.  Personally I could not handle some of the stuff that was said here.  I used to be a pretty laid-back, relaxed person but after what we've been through in the past few years I feel as if the world is a hostile place and we are constantly under attack. It's like the anxiety chip is on and I can't turn it off.   I know there are lots of SO's who probably feel that way as well.  I can understand their anxiety but it is not always easy for me to be sympathetic.  If my daughter's abuser came here and talked about how tough things were for him - well, best not get into it.

Anyway, thank you Steve for making the changes.  I hope this will make things a bit easier for some to post and that we can talk about some of those "grey" areas that aren't black and white without feeling as if we are letting down the side.

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166353, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 03, 2005 08:34 PM [All Victims and Families, advocates, a...]
      166411, deadmomwalking, Nov 04, 2005 03:22 AM
            166457, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:55 PM [deadmomwalking and dp1]
                  166511, dp1, Nov 05, 2005 03:20 AM [Momhelping]
                        166633, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 12:11 AM [dp1]
            167114, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 10, 2005 08:32 PM [deadmomwalking]
      166429, Navigatr1, Nov 04, 2005 12:46 PM [On Right Track]
            166458, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:56 PM [navigatr1]
      166449, dp1, Nov 04, 2005 03:27 PM
      166454, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 04, 2005 03:51 PM [i need to make a correction]
      166456, anti, Nov 04, 2005 03:54 PM [cool...]
            166634, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 12:13 AM [anti]
      166684, Valerie, Nov 06, 2005 05:48 PM
            166688, PVulcan, Nov 06, 2005 06:06 PM
                  166693, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 06:19 PM [PVulcan]
            166690, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 06, 2005 06:11 PM [valerie]
      166692, Valerie, Nov 06, 2005 06:19 PM
            168379, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 01, 2005 03:50 PM [since my pc has been down i am ...]
      166737, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Nov 07, 2005 01:46 AM [Sitting on The Fence]
            166744, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 03:10 AM [dothecrimedothetime]
            166751, dp1, Nov 07, 2005 03:35 AM
            166753, dp1, Nov 07, 2005 03:53 AM
                  166760, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Nov 07, 2005 06:10 AM
                        166782, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 04:20 PM [dp1 and dothecrimedothetime]
                              166863, dp1, Nov 08, 2005 02:23 AM [Momhelping]
                                    166902, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:43 PM [dp1]
            168380, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 01, 2005 03:55 PM [dothecrimedothetime]
                  168870, steve, Dec 08, 2005 04:34 AM
                        169856, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 21, 2005 02:38 PM [steve]
      166815, Valerie, Nov 07, 2005 07:51 PM
            166823, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 07, 2005 08:27 PM [valerie]
      166846, Valerie, Nov 08, 2005 12:54 AM
            166903, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 08, 2005 01:45 PM [valerie]
      169925, ForeverTomorrow, Dec 23, 2005 01:58 AM [A bit Confused...]
            170018, Valerie, Dec 24, 2005 06:18 PM
            170021, momhelpingbyherself, Dec 24, 2005 08:05 PM [forevertomorrow]
            170169, rebel51, Dec 29, 2005 12:22 PM

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