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Message 166280 (In Reply to Message 166266)
reb

Posted by myoung on Nov 03, 2005 01:27 PM | Also by myoung

Gender: N/A, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Pennsylvania, Country: United States

hehehe....I've told my kids the same thing. I believe in prevention too. I don' t want to be in that position. What's wrong with people?? grrrrr

It's sad that you were able to give me an actual material example of that work/mom issue. How sad :-( I too would have died on the spot if my mother would have come to my work and done things like that. She NEVER came to my workplaces. Thank God I'm not the only one out there who believes people should be held fully accountable for their crap. I know most of the parents on this forum and many without kids who feel as we do. It's those FEW who don't that cause all the problems.....squeaky wheel gets the grease I suppose

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Message 166266

Posted by rebel51 on Nov 03, 2005 08:01 AM | Also by rebel51

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: California, Country: United States

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">Geez...what's gonna happen if, when she has a job, she doesn't get that big promotion based on merit. Is mommy gonna run in and save the day? (me shaking my head) What a message that sent</span></blockquote>
I believe that I can actually answer that.....I work as a bartender in a bowling alley, so as a result I get to see both the young and the old. We recently hired a young girl of 19 to work as a porter (cleans up after bowlers)...anyway she has worked there now for approx. 2 months. So far her Uncle and/or her mother have not missed a shift eather! If a customer gets angry and speaks to the girl with even the slightest "tone" of voice...the Uncle or the Mother jump all over the customer as if they are going to "beat them up after school". The girl acts like this is just fine and something she just expects!! I would have been so humilitated if ANYONE had ever come to my job and "handled" a problem for me!
<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">I am positive I'd struggle with my feelings, I don't think I would do such a thing for my almost grown child </span></blockquote>
Thank goodness I never had to put my words into action, but I let both my boys know that if they went to jail for ANY reason that was thier own fault..drugs, driving intoxicated, exhabition of speed anything like that and they would be staying in jail...I would not bail them out nor would I come up with any cash to help them get out of any fines etc etc.

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            166017, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:26 PM [Not Stupid]
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      165565, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:19 AM [driving people away]
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                  166258, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:34 AM [mom]
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                        165666, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 11:51 PM [myyoung No So's Rso'...]
                              166259, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:41 AM [mom]
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                                                166266, rebel51, Nov 03, 2005 08:01 AM
                                                      166280, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 01:27 PM [reb]
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