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Message 166012 (In Reply to Message 165930)

Posted by dp1 on Nov 01, 2005 12:06 PM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

You have bashed orolan for copying your thread into the general forum (which is where I feel it should have been in the first place) and called him rude for doing so, but then have made comment that he shouldn't be posting in the victim's corner. You can't expect a person to not comment on a post that you make that "seems" to be an attack against that person's character.

This is an interesting point. Let's look in the other side forum and see how sex offenders bash the other side. Look at Fallenone's posts. Has there been any posts in the last year where he hasn't slammed DP1? Now, we all know F1 is verbally abusive, not that it's acceptable for him to do this, but I refuse to lower myself to this scumbag level and even bother wasting energy on his posts. Sorry, that's how I feel. I challenge ANYONE to attack me for saying this or bashing a sex offender in this forum after being verbally abused as much as I have (for no reason other than correctly classifying this guy as a predator) Now, I'm not trying to pat myself on the back here, I'm simply saying that it's clear in this case that I'd be more than justified slamming this guy for being ignorant, but I don't out of respect for the other side forum. Yet, not one RSO has stepped up to the plate and told F1 to quit this unwarranted verbal abuse. You guys can't have it both ways here fellas. If you want to whine about being attacked in this forum, then before you clean up this house go clean up your own. And since we are talking about Orolan specifically, why don't we ask him how or why he tolerates this behavior from RSOs in the other side yet jumps all over victims for similar behavior. My silence regarding the personal attacks in the other side forum speaks volumes for the respect I have for other RSOs, don't you think? Inquiring minds have a need to know.

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Message 165930

Posted by rabbitreborn on Oct 31, 2005 10:13 PM | Also by rabbitreborn

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

OKay, I know I'm going to get bashed for responding to this, but oh well, I have broad shoulders so I can handle it.

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">when i post in here i don't want so's rso's or pediophiles or their supporters to respond to my posts</span></blockquote>
Please do not expect every RSO, pedophile, or supporter of those same people to automatically "know" that.  If you do not want reply's by those types, please do the agreed upon thing and post that info in the subtitle of each post you make in the victims corner.  I believe that steve has already stated that that would be an acceptable means of limiting the responses you receive, and as he is the owner of the site I would think following his wishes in this matter would be prudent.

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">or furthermore taking them to the general forum as this is rude</span></blockquote>
No offense, but as you have stated this in MANY posts, I feel I should comment on it.  It was RUDE to make a post bashing people on this site (even if you didn't name names) in a thread in a forum where they didn't want to post for fear of offending Victims.  It is not "rude" to move that topic of debate to a forum better suited for that discussion.  If you don't want people to reply to your posts within the victims forum, that is your right and I at least will respect steve's site rules and not respond to any post in the victim's forum that specifically asks (in the proper manner) for RSO's not to respond.

However, you have repeatedly made reference to how uncomfortable a victim would feel in anything other than the victim's forum when they are first starting out posting , then in the next breath you make mention of the fact that they would be mortified having their posts copied and pasted into the general forum, so I ask, which is it?  If they are ONLY visiting the site for the support of the victim's forum, then they would not even know there was a discussion of their post in the general forum.  If however, they are reading posts in the "general" or "free-for-all" (please note that these are both names placed on that forum by the site owner not me) forum, then they are going to get the RSO side of events as well as the victim's side and hopefully will walk away with a better understanding of the whole situtation.  I for one, WILL continue to read EVERY thread that I choose to, and if something needs comment, but due to the original poster wishing to preclude comments by RSO while in the victim's corner, I absolutely WILL copy it into the general forum so that I can make the response I feel it deserves.  You have bashed orolan for copying your thread into the general forum (which is where I feel it should have been in the first place) and called him rude for doing so, but then have made comment that he shouldn't be posting in the victim's corner.  You can't expect a person to not comment on a post that you make that "seems" to be an attack against that person's character.

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165453, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 25, 2005 09:45 PM [When does a victim ever get any rights]
      165454, steve, Oct 25, 2005 10:00 PM
            165460, anothen, Oct 25, 2005 11:02 PM
      165464, youtoo, Oct 26, 2005 12:35 AM
      165503, tygerlillie, Oct 26, 2005 05:02 PM [Have a stupid ? well maybe not so stupid]
            165955, 1dadof5, Nov 01, 2005 01:57 AM [tiger]
            166017, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:26 PM [Not Stupid]
      165509, rabbitreborn, Oct 26, 2005 06:28 PM
            165511, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 26, 2005 06:49 PM [rabbitreborn]
                  165928, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 09:48 PM
                        166020, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:44 PM
            165542, 1dadof5, Oct 26, 2005 11:37 PM
                  165564, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:18 AM [coming and going]
      165558, anti, Oct 27, 2005 05:22 AM [what?]
      165565, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:19 AM [driving people away]
            165584, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 01:29 PM [myyoung and 1dadoffive]
                  165939, anti, Oct 31, 2005 10:41 PM [dp left?]
                        165971, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:12 AM [Anti]
                              165972, anti, Nov 01, 2005 04:18 AM [thank you...]
                  166022, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:49 PM
                  166258, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:34 AM [mom]
            165598, dp1, Oct 27, 2005 03:31 PM
                  165601, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:13 PM [in a perfect world]
                  165658, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:58 PM [dp1]
                        165666, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 11:51 PM [myyoung No So's Rso'...]
                              166259, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:41 AM [mom]
                        165700, kids1st, Oct 28, 2005 06:56 AM
                        165773, rebel51, Oct 29, 2005 03:07 PM
                              165779, myoung, Oct 29, 2005 05:17 PM [reb]
                                    165788, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 29, 2005 06:21 PM [myyoung]
                                          166260, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:46 AM [mom]
                                    165823, rebel51, Oct 30, 2005 01:20 PM
                                          166262, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:16 AM [rebel]
                                                166266, rebel51, Nov 03, 2005 08:01 AM
                                                      166280, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 01:27 PM [reb]
            166021, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:47 PM [I agree]
      165616, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:49 PM [to sit things straight]
            165930, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 10:13 PM
                  166012, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 12:06 PM
                        166034, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 02:25 PM
                              166040, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 02:49 PM
                                    166044, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 03:00 PM [My Post]
                                    166068, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:25 PM
                                          166073, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:49 PM
                                                166076, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 05:05 PM
                              166061, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:07 PM
                                    166074, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:52 PM
                        166058, Renunciation, Nov 01, 2005 03:43 PM
                              166070, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:30 PM
                        166082, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:48 PM [dp1]
            166024, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 02:04 PM
                  166083, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:55 PM [navigatr1]
                        166264, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:24 AM [mom]

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