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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
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Message 165823 (In Reply to Message 165779)
Posted by rebel51
on Oct 30, 2005 01:20 PM | Also by rebel51
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 50 - 59,
State: California,
Country: United States |
I just don't think we need to "shut people down" for speaking their minds. It's up to me, you and anyone else who reads here as to whether they want to accept what is being typed or not
I completely agree with you. I do think that there should be alot more respect for one another within the different areas but I dont think that anyone should be banned per say. Thats why I said that sometimes I do have to go away. There has only been one person on this site that had "the power" to upset me that bad so far.
This is a really hard issue because I can see and agree with all sides of it and each has such good arguments for thier side of it.
I do know that calling names and being rude to one another especially in this forum is not going to solve anything.
To me, in this forum, everyone should be not only on thier best behavior, but they should not have one unkind thing to say. I am just as guilty of that as anyone. While trying to be nice in how I worded it, I did tell someone in here that I felt that they were just as guilty of child molesting as the actual molester if she did not call the police. I believe that I may have told a couple of people similar things. One of the things in my past was that the adults did not help me..they just assumed that because they had "spoken" to the offender it was all better now...so I guess that I have a very low tolerance when I feel that a child is being "allowed" to be molested by an adults "oh my, oh my...whatever can I do?" attitude. However it is not my place to TELL anyone anything in the victims forum. My only place is to be there IF they need me and my personal brand of help..which is to usually let them know that someone else has been there, they are not alone in that place. Thats all I can do...let them know that there are others. I feel that every one of us has something to offer and maybe one of us has the word or the deed that will begin the healing process today instead of tomarrow.
I know that sometimes I sound wishy washy because one day I say one thing and then the next day it will sound like I am saying the opposite, when in reality, I have just had someone talk to me and help me to see it just a little different than I did yesterday. I feel that is what we are all here for..to give as many sides to the same problem so that the victim will be able to pick the one that fits them the best and take whatever comfort they can from the rest.
I also agree with your assesment of todays children..I think that we are raising them without the ability to cope. I also feel that we are raising them to not take responsibilty for anything.
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Message 165779
reb
Posted by myoung
on Oct 29, 2005 05:17 PM | Also by myoung
| Gender: N/A,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: Pennsylvania,
Country: United States |
Thread
165453, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 25, 2005 09:45 PM [When does a victim ever get any rights]
165454, steve, Oct 25, 2005 10:00 PM
165460, anothen, Oct 25, 2005 11:02 PM
165464, youtoo, Oct 26, 2005 12:35 AM
165503, tygerlillie, Oct 26, 2005 05:02 PM [Have a stupid ? well maybe not so stupid]
165955, 1dadof5, Nov 01, 2005 01:57 AM [tiger]
166017, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:26 PM [Not Stupid]
165509, rabbitreborn, Oct 26, 2005 06:28 PM
165511, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 26, 2005 06:49 PM [rabbitreborn]
165928, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 09:48 PM
166020, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:44 PM
165542, 1dadof5, Oct 26, 2005 11:37 PM
165564, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:18 AM [coming and going]
165558, anti, Oct 27, 2005 05:22 AM [what?]
165565, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:19 AM [driving people away]
165584, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 01:29 PM [myyoung and 1dadoffive]
165939, anti, Oct 31, 2005 10:41 PM [dp left?]
165971, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:12 AM [Anti]
165972, anti, Nov 01, 2005 04:18 AM [thank you...]
166022, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:49 PM
166258, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:34 AM [mom]
165598, dp1, Oct 27, 2005 03:31 PM
165601, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:13 PM [in a perfect world]
165658, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:58 PM [dp1]
165666, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 11:51 PM [myyoung No So's Rso'...]
166259, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:41 AM [mom]
165700, kids1st, Oct 28, 2005 06:56 AM
165773, rebel51, Oct 29, 2005 03:07 PM
165779, myoung, Oct 29, 2005 05:17 PM [reb]
165788, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 29, 2005 06:21 PM [myyoung]
166260, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:46 AM [mom]
165823, rebel51, Oct 30, 2005 01:20 PM
166262, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:16 AM [rebel]
166266, rebel51, Nov 03, 2005 08:01 AM
166280, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 01:27 PM [reb]
166021, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:47 PM [I agree]
165616, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:49 PM [to sit things straight]
165930, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 10:13 PM
166012, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 12:06 PM
166034, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 02:25 PM
166040, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 02:49 PM
166044, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 03:00 PM [My Post]
166068, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:25 PM
166073, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:49 PM
166076, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 05:05 PM
166061, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:07 PM
166074, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:52 PM
166058, Renunciation, Nov 01, 2005 03:43 PM
166070, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:30 PM
166082, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:48 PM [dp1]
166024, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 02:04 PM
166083, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:55 PM [navigatr1]
166264, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:24 AM [mom]
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