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Message 165601 (In Reply to Message 165598)
in a perfect world

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Oct 27, 2005 04:13 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

well dp, its not a perfect world, and see, victims are treated worse than the offenders, for several reasons, 1. if they go and report it, they have to testify, and defense attorneys make them feel like they are being Raped all over again. 2. they may have been threatned with harm to their families. or unfortunately, in this forum, people have no respect for the victims, and they either lurk, or leave, well guess what, I am not leaving and being victimised again. For my well being, and for my love of my daughter. I have never seen where someone would come into a victims corner and take something out into a general forum. what did they have to gain from it? to harass me, oh well, i don't break that easy. if anything it justs shows their ignorance. no wonder that person says DUH alot. If i as a victim, and a parent of a victim can stand up to these bullies that seem to think they rule the roost, then other victims gather together with me, we can make a difference and stand strong together. we can kick them out. read the above warning. just make sure that we as victims and families and friends and such state we don't want them to respond then that will shut their mouths. if it gets taken into general forum, i am willing to deal with them. Lets not be victimized again

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Message 165598

Posted by dp1 on Oct 27, 2005 03:31 PM | Also by dp1

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Florida, Country: United States

<blockquote><span class="mb-quote">you can only drive someone away if they allow it.  Your giving people power they don't actually have here.</span></blockquote>

True. In a perfect world we'd all be independent and strong. Victim's are unique in that they've already been selected by offenders as easy prey. They've been kicked around. Their self esteem has been lowered. yada yada yada. Maybe my problem is that I have too much empathy for victims since I am not one. I cringe when I see some of the stuff that goes on in this forum. Oh well, who cares? Let's throw them all to the wolves.

There are many times I read about victimization and I ask myself why the victim did not fight back? Why did Jessica Lunsford not peep a word when a-hole Couey stuffed her in a closet or a plastic bag? Why are there victims on this forum that haven't reported their crimes to the authorities? I don't know why but I suspect it's because of fear. I may be totally off base by assuming victims have fear of offenders......I suppose I'll never really know as long as the victims get run off and continue to be intimidated to speak. Oh well, as long as victims don't speak the crimes didn't happen. I just can't understand why a RSO would undermine a victim's only forum, do you?

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165453, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 25, 2005 09:45 PM [When does a victim ever get any rights]
      165454, steve, Oct 25, 2005 10:00 PM
            165460, anothen, Oct 25, 2005 11:02 PM
      165464, youtoo, Oct 26, 2005 12:35 AM
      165503, tygerlillie, Oct 26, 2005 05:02 PM [Have a stupid ? well maybe not so stupid]
            165955, 1dadof5, Nov 01, 2005 01:57 AM [tiger]
            166017, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:26 PM [Not Stupid]
      165509, rabbitreborn, Oct 26, 2005 06:28 PM
            165511, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 26, 2005 06:49 PM [rabbitreborn]
                  165928, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 09:48 PM
                        166020, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:44 PM
            165542, 1dadof5, Oct 26, 2005 11:37 PM
                  165564, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:18 AM [coming and going]
      165558, anti, Oct 27, 2005 05:22 AM [what?]
      165565, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:19 AM [driving people away]
            165584, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 01:29 PM [myyoung and 1dadoffive]
                  165939, anti, Oct 31, 2005 10:41 PM [dp left?]
                        165971, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:12 AM [Anti]
                              165972, anti, Nov 01, 2005 04:18 AM [thank you...]
                  166022, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:49 PM
                  166258, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:34 AM [mom]
            165598, dp1, Oct 27, 2005 03:31 PM
                  165601, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:13 PM [in a perfect world]
                  165658, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:58 PM [dp1]
                        165666, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 11:51 PM [myyoung No So's Rso'...]
                              166259, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:41 AM [mom]
                        165700, kids1st, Oct 28, 2005 06:56 AM
                        165773, rebel51, Oct 29, 2005 03:07 PM
                              165779, myoung, Oct 29, 2005 05:17 PM [reb]
                                    165788, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 29, 2005 06:21 PM [myyoung]
                                          166260, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:46 AM [mom]
                                    165823, rebel51, Oct 30, 2005 01:20 PM
                                          166262, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:16 AM [rebel]
                                                166266, rebel51, Nov 03, 2005 08:01 AM
                                                      166280, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 01:27 PM [reb]
            166021, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:47 PM [I agree]
      165616, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:49 PM [to sit things straight]
            165930, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 10:13 PM
                  166012, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 12:06 PM
                        166034, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 02:25 PM
                              166040, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 02:49 PM
                                    166044, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 03:00 PM [My Post]
                                    166068, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:25 PM
                                          166073, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:49 PM
                                                166076, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 05:05 PM
                              166061, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:07 PM
                                    166074, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:52 PM
                        166058, Renunciation, Nov 01, 2005 03:43 PM
                              166070, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:30 PM
                        166082, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:48 PM [dp1]
            166024, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 02:04 PM
                  166083, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:55 PM [navigatr1]
                        166264, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:24 AM [mom]

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