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Message 165454 (In Reply to Message 165453)

Posted by steve on Oct 25, 2005 10:00 PM | Also by steve

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 30 - 39, State: Virginia, Country: United States

Steve, there has to be something that you can do so that victims feel safe to post in, without harsh words from other people. Especially those who hope that mother nature will do harm to others. That was uncalled for.

I am not familiar with the post you are referring to. I've been out of the country (still am) so another moderator has been doing most of the moderation (and some users' posts aren't pre-moderated) and no one has notified me privately or the admin account about such a post. If there are concerns about a post, I need users' help by being privately contacted with the post ID and details. Thanks.

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Message 165453
When does a victim ever get any rights

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Oct 25, 2005 09:45 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

I haven't been here that long, but i have seen 2 veterans of this forum leave because the victims are being abused, bashed or not taken seriously by the SO'S RSO's and such. But yet they sit on their all mighty thrones and say that everything is so unfair to them, well it seems to me that 1. wishing harm from a natural disaster is wish harm on anyone, SO or victim. 2. Everyone gets in a heated debate because the SO's don't understand the emotional turmoil that families and victims are going through. all they want to do is gripe and moan about how unfair the laws are to them. Well what about the LAWS for the victims. They sure aren't fair. If a person gets probabation, and then proceeds to break probation, it doesn't matter what the stupid crime is, they deserve to have the probation revoked. They did not live up to their end of the terms of the probation. Now, 2 of the most broad minded people in this forum are leaving, if they come back, it would be a miracle. I for one as both a victim, who was STUPID only in capitals to make my point, and as a MOTHER of a VICTIM are gone. Because of the callous, cold, and unthoughtful and just plain ignorance of some of the posts that have been made. To those people who made those posts. You need to sit down and have a talk with God, if you believe there is one. Because, you are not showing a bit of humanity, but yet you demand to have it given to you. I for one, will not be run out, but i do know that dp will come back. as for deadmomwalking, i can only pray. Steve, there has to be something that you can do so that victims feel safe to post in, without harsh words from other people. Especially those who hope that mother nature will do harm to others. That was uncalled for. I am a victim of a force of mother nature, and it made me sick, and frankly, i was slightly surprised that the post was allowed to go through, concidering how many hurricanes there has been, and also, since the debates seem to be boiling down to the laws in Florida, and that quite a few people live in Florida do post in to this forum. I only hope, that other victims, will get up off their butts, and speak out, like dp1 and deadmomwalking tried to do for BOTH SIDES.

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165453, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 25, 2005 09:45 PM [When does a victim ever get any rights]
      165454, steve, Oct 25, 2005 10:00 PM
            165460, anothen, Oct 25, 2005 11:02 PM
      165464, youtoo, Oct 26, 2005 12:35 AM
      165503, tygerlillie, Oct 26, 2005 05:02 PM [Have a stupid ? well maybe not so stupid]
            165955, 1dadof5, Nov 01, 2005 01:57 AM [tiger]
            166017, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:26 PM [Not Stupid]
      165509, rabbitreborn, Oct 26, 2005 06:28 PM
            165511, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 26, 2005 06:49 PM [rabbitreborn]
                  165928, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 09:48 PM
                        166020, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:44 PM
            165542, 1dadof5, Oct 26, 2005 11:37 PM
                  165564, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:18 AM [coming and going]
      165558, anti, Oct 27, 2005 05:22 AM [what?]
      165565, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:19 AM [driving people away]
            165584, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 01:29 PM [myyoung and 1dadoffive]
                  165939, anti, Oct 31, 2005 10:41 PM [dp left?]
                        165971, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:12 AM [Anti]
                              165972, anti, Nov 01, 2005 04:18 AM [thank you...]
                  166022, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:49 PM
                  166258, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:34 AM [mom]
            165598, dp1, Oct 27, 2005 03:31 PM
                  165601, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:13 PM [in a perfect world]
                  165658, myoung, Oct 27, 2005 07:58 PM [dp1]
                        165666, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 11:51 PM [myyoung No So's Rso'...]
                              166259, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:41 AM [mom]
                        165700, kids1st, Oct 28, 2005 06:56 AM
                        165773, rebel51, Oct 29, 2005 03:07 PM
                              165779, myoung, Oct 29, 2005 05:17 PM [reb]
                                    165788, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 29, 2005 06:21 PM [myyoung]
                                          166260, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 06:46 AM [mom]
                                    165823, rebel51, Oct 30, 2005 01:20 PM
                                          166262, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:16 AM [rebel]
                                                166266, rebel51, Nov 03, 2005 08:01 AM
                                                      166280, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 01:27 PM [reb]
            166021, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 01:47 PM [I agree]
      165616, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 27, 2005 04:49 PM [to sit things straight]
            165930, rabbitreborn, Oct 31, 2005 10:13 PM
                  166012, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 12:06 PM
                        166034, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 02:25 PM
                              166040, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 02:49 PM
                                    166044, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 03:00 PM [My Post]
                                    166068, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:25 PM
                                          166073, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:49 PM
                                                166076, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 05:05 PM
                              166061, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:07 PM
                                    166074, rabbitreborn, Nov 01, 2005 04:52 PM
                        166058, Renunciation, Nov 01, 2005 03:43 PM
                              166070, dp1, Nov 01, 2005 04:30 PM
                        166082, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:48 PM [dp1]
            166024, Navigatr1, Nov 01, 2005 02:04 PM
                  166083, momhelpingbyherself, Nov 01, 2005 05:55 PM [navigatr1]
                        166264, myoung, Nov 03, 2005 07:24 AM [mom]

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