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Message 165787 (In Reply to Message 165767)
rebel51

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Oct 29, 2005 06:13 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

i understand how you feel about mother in laws cause i had the worst of them all. but to be glad that she is dead, i don't think will help in this situation, at least not the way you put it. with a lot of sarcasam. you sounded like you were tearing her apart. i know how she feels. its family regardless wheather or not its hers or his. and she has to deal with it. she feels betrayed, and it seems like you were making a mockery of it. just my opinion. only because i had to go against my mother and her husband.

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Posted by rebel51 on Oct 29, 2005 02:38 PM | Also by rebel51

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 50 - 59, State: California, Country: United States

Hello and welcome to the forum kid.
Reading your post was almost like taking a page out of mine, other than when you got to the part where you found that one of your own had been molested, thank God above I have NEVER had to live thru that. I was molested from about 4 to about 12 by several uncles and then raped at about 15 by a stranger. I went thru the drugs as a teenager and I also became a tramp because "what difference did it make I'm not a virgin anyway!" 
My molesters were also never prosecuted but not because of any legal reasons..mine were not prosecuted because they "were family" and so it was swept under the rug and forgotten and never ever talked about! It was a whole nother world back then! I also never had any therapy..a therapist was said to be someone who thought that "everyone hates thier mother and secretly wants to sleep with thier father" So God forbid even thinking about going to see one...plus that only the people in Hollywood did stuff like that!!
So I know what you are going thru and you WILL make it the same as your daughter will make it! She has you to go to and you have been there! So what better references could you have? I dont feel that you will turn to drugs or alcohol because you are stronger than that..you proved it the first time you gave it up. While your child needs you, there is no way that you would fail to be there in heart, body, soul AND mind. As a survivor you will help your daughter to become a survivor and my Prayers will be there for you for moral support.
Good Luck and I applaud you standing up to your Mother-in-law she sounds like she needs it! I had (she died, awwwww!) a mother-in-law that told me to my face on my wedding day what she thought of me...she did not like the fact that I had married her "baby" awwww!
Shes dead and I am still married to "her baby" soooo I WIN!!

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