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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Confused Friend
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Message 164385 (In Reply to Message 164238)
Posted by transparent
on Oct 13, 2005 03:48 AM | Also by transparent
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 18 - 20,
State: N/A,
Country: United States |
thank you to all who have replied, you've helped me a lot. and yes, from the beginning I have taken a very strong approach of it being her decision. I've been giving her ideas, I believe she plans to tell her parents tomarrow in fact, she wants me to be there because the hardest part for her is getting the words out, so would it be a good idea for me to say some of it? Sounds like that'd be the only way that it all can be told.
I suggested counceling to her briefly today and she really didn't like the idea, she doesn't think it can help, despite my mention of how much it helped me when I was having issues and had become a cutter...long story. But yes I agree that keeping it quiet can be dangerous and I never even thought of him doing it again but I suppose that's certainly possible and a very unwanted situation.
I just hope for all this to work out, and with the help of me and her parents and maybe councelors, there's a chance, if carried out delicately. As for now I guess I'll see what she wants to do tomarrow about it, she wants to tell them tomarrow especially because her parents want to drag her along to go visit her brothers in Seattle this weekend and she really doesn't want to go, for obvious reasons. But unless she tells them this truth there's nothing she can do to get out of it.
Thanks for the advice and any more you may post. I'll try to keep posted here on what happens to progress.
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Message 164238
counseling
Posted by kids1st
on Oct 12, 2005 06:12 AM | Also by kids1st
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 40 - 49,
State: Alabama,
Country: United States |
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164033, transparent, Oct 10, 2005 06:37 AM
164072, steve, Oct 10, 2005 03:57 PM
164096, transparent, Oct 10, 2005 06:46 PM
164128, transparent, Oct 11, 2005 04:45 AM
164167, saintjimmy, Oct 11, 2005 05:34 PM
164829, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 17, 2005 03:53 PM [my opinion before i le...]
164855, saintjimmy, Oct 17, 2005 08:50 PM
165022, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 19, 2005 07:09 PM [saintjimmy]
165097, kids1st, Oct 20, 2005 02:06 PM [Repressed Memories]
164831, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 17, 2005 04:06 PM [saintjimmy]
164135, polykenos, Oct 11, 2005 05:52 AM [evidence ?]
164144, dp1, Oct 11, 2005 08:24 AM
164166, oicu812, Oct 11, 2005 05:25 PM
164239, transparent, Oct 12, 2005 06:16 AM
164286, oicu812, Oct 12, 2005 02:39 PM
164360, dp1, Oct 13, 2005 01:04 AM
164306, PVulcan, Oct 12, 2005 03:58 PM [transparent]
164311, Renunciation, Oct 12, 2005 04:18 PM [Counseling Source]
164395, polykenos, Oct 13, 2005 06:38 AM
164441, transparent, Oct 13, 2005 05:12 PM
164238, kids1st, Oct 12, 2005 06:12 AM [counseling]
164385, transparent, Oct 13, 2005 03:48 AM
164523, deadmomwalking, Oct 14, 2005 10:53 AM
164549, transparent, Oct 14, 2005 08:01 PM
164786, deadmomwalking, Oct 17, 2005 04:09 AM
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