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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Confused Friend
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Message 164306 (In Reply to Message 164239)
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Posted by PVulcan
on Oct 12, 2005 03:58 PM | Also by PVulcan
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I certainly understand your anger and frustration about what happened to your g/f but it's really important that you are not putting pressure on her to make decisions that she is not willing to make right now. The healing process is about regaining a sense of empowerment and control back to your life. This can't be done when loved ones are pressuring them. I understand that you want justice, however at this time it sounds like she needs to start at the beginning, at that would be going to a therapist. Applying pressure only creates more guilt and shame. I think it's great that you are doing some research in order to help her, but present all the information you gather as 'options', not as what 'she NEEDS to do'. Does that make sense? Good luck.
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Message 164239
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on Oct 12, 2005 06:16 AM | Also by transparent
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164033, transparent, Oct 10, 2005 06:37 AM
164072, steve, Oct 10, 2005 03:57 PM
164096, transparent, Oct 10, 2005 06:46 PM
164128, transparent, Oct 11, 2005 04:45 AM
164167, saintjimmy, Oct 11, 2005 05:34 PM
164829, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 17, 2005 03:53 PM [my opinion before i le...]
164855, saintjimmy, Oct 17, 2005 08:50 PM
165022, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 19, 2005 07:09 PM [saintjimmy]
165097, kids1st, Oct 20, 2005 02:06 PM [Repressed Memories]
164831, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 17, 2005 04:06 PM [saintjimmy]
164135, polykenos, Oct 11, 2005 05:52 AM [evidence ?]
164144, dp1, Oct 11, 2005 08:24 AM
164166, oicu812, Oct 11, 2005 05:25 PM
164239, transparent, Oct 12, 2005 06:16 AM
164286, oicu812, Oct 12, 2005 02:39 PM
164360, dp1, Oct 13, 2005 01:04 AM
164306, PVulcan, Oct 12, 2005 03:58 PM [transparent]
164311, Renunciation, Oct 12, 2005 04:18 PM [Counseling Source]
164395, polykenos, Oct 13, 2005 06:38 AM
164441, transparent, Oct 13, 2005 05:12 PM
164238, kids1st, Oct 12, 2005 06:12 AM [counseling]
164385, transparent, Oct 13, 2005 03:48 AM
164523, deadmomwalking, Oct 14, 2005 10:53 AM
164549, transparent, Oct 14, 2005 08:01 PM
164786, deadmomwalking, Oct 17, 2005 04:09 AM
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