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Message 164647 (In Reply to Message 164518)
kidsfirst

Posted by momhelpingbyherself on Oct 15, 2005 06:29 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Kentucky, Country: United States

my counceling is for a completley different reason. Yes i am angry at my mom. its not because she chose a man over my child and me. its because she chose material things over us. we talk, when he is not around, or when its something that she needs from me, other than that, its very rare. I am glad that things are the way they are. I don't have to have any more awkward moments at reunions and holidays.

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Message 164518

Posted by kids1st on Oct 14, 2005 06:13 AM | Also by kids1st

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Alabama, Country: United States

mom - Maybe your nightmares stem from your anger at your mother for choosing a man over her child and grandchild. I can understand your feelings. My daughter was molested by my brother-in-law from the time she could remember until she was eight years old. I have been fighting this family for years because they can't understand why I don't want my daughter around him. Of course, no one in his family believed that he had abused her, and ultimately he served no time. So it has really been a battle for me. Why he didn't serve time is a long, long story. But he had been convicted of molesting another brother's son. He was 20 years old at the time and was granted youthful offender status because it was his first offense and he played dumb. But that could not be brought up during my daughter's case. He got three years probation for the first offense. I don't know how they thought that was going to help, but anyway. 
I sometimes have many different nightmares, some involving people who had nothing to do with what happened or the aftermath. But having nightmares about your mother is understandable because she was closely involved in the incident and you must feel betrayed by her. I do hope that you continue in counselling and that the nightmares will become fewer. One way that I have found that really helps me is writing. I am currently writing a novel that deals with sex abuse.

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            164647, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 15, 2005 06:29 PM [kidsfirst]
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