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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Help for momhelpingbyherself
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Message 163571 (In Reply to Message 163514)
Mom
Posted by dp1
on Oct 05, 2005 10:20 AM | Also by dp1
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: N/A,
State: Florida,
Country: United States |
but i don't care about myself. i care about my children and that is a concept she doesn't know anything about
Mom, ya gotta care about yourself because no one else will if you don't. If you ever get over the anger you'll realize one day that it was all a big waste of time. We can't control other people's emotions. We can control our own and that's it. If your children are that special to you you'll stop wasting their time by being angry at other family members who will never give you the enjoyment your precious angels do today. How you feel about your parents and how they feel about you is so insignificant in the big scheme of things at your age. What does it matter? All that matters is that you keep your health up and your immediate family intact. The rest of the world is secondary. NOBODY controls you but you. Think about that sweetie. You'll be much happier just letting it go. Stop the negative thoughts and take time to smell the roses. Take the kids to the beach. Make love to your sweetie. Go shopping and buy chocolate. Go to church next Sunday. What else really matters?
You know my daughters love to spoil me by telling me I'm the best Mom, the funniest Mom or the prettiest Mom in the world. There is nothing more important than their perception of me particularly at their young age. I'd be mortified if they thought I was angry, moody, unloving, hateful, etc.... Do you see what I am saying? Don't think being angry only effects you. Other people see it and they also feel resentment because of the negative feelings. It's not fair to others who love you for you to waste precious time on self defeating negative thoughts instead of loving them.
Just my 2 cents.
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Message 163514
navigatr1
Posted by momhelpingbyherself
on Oct 04, 2005 09:07 PM | Also by momhelpingbyherself
| Gender: Female,
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State: Kentucky,
Country: United States |
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163461, Navigatr1, Oct 04, 2005 02:16 PM
163471, dp1, Oct 04, 2005 02:47 PM
163515, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 04, 2005 09:09 PM [dp1]
163514, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 04, 2005 09:07 PM [navigatr1]
163571, dp1, Oct 05, 2005 10:20 AM [Mom]
163604, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 05, 2005 07:12 PM [dp1]
164414, Navigatr1, Oct 13, 2005 02:11 PM
164469, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 13, 2005 08:53 PM [navigatr1]
164275, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 12, 2005 01:40 PM [dp1]
164342, steve, Oct 12, 2005 09:48 PM
164409, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 13, 2005 02:02 PM [steve]
164413, steve, Oct 13, 2005 02:11 PM
164467, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 13, 2005 08:51 PM [steve]
164780, steve, Oct 17, 2005 02:05 AM
164825, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 17, 2005 03:22 PM [steve]
164844, steve, Oct 17, 2005 06:38 PM
164400, Navigatr1, Oct 13, 2005 01:30 PM
164410, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 13, 2005 02:05 PM [navigatr1]
164521, deadmomwalking, Oct 14, 2005 09:32 AM
164532, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 14, 2005 03:52 PM [deadmomwalking]
164518, kids1st, Oct 14, 2005 06:13 AM
164647, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 15, 2005 06:29 PM [kidsfirst]
164700, kids1st, Oct 16, 2005 08:24 AM
164762, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 16, 2005 09:04 PM [kids1st]
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