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Thread (Discussion): Do Victims and Offenders ever use this site to learn from each other?


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Message 162903


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Ruined on Sep 28, 2005 06:39 AM | Also by Ruined
Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: Pennsylvania, Country: United States

Do Victims and Offenders ever use this site to communicate, understand and get closure from each other?

I am new here, and don't know how to classify myself. I just know that for better or for worse, I belong here now.

But, what I have seen recently, is thousands of people, victims and offenders, literally living in a kind of perpetual hell. It's almost like there is more at work here than just crime and punishment.

And, I'm not sure that Law Enforcement/Law Makers have all the best interests of the victims in mind. Or that Defense Lawyers and Doctors have the best interests in mind for offenders.

And, the worst part is that most people here, on both sides, are just extremely hurt people, wanting to understand why horrible things have happened in their lives. Why people have done horrible things to others. Or both.

And, I may be naive, but there may be a lot of answers floating around here. Answers that are practically sacred to both groups. Answers that I can't possibly see the professionals of either group caring about in the least.

It is terrible but there is a distinct possibility that people in charge of the management of these tragedies, may be doing nothing more than feeding on the pain of both groups. Rocketing careers, passing laws, defending the innocent, defending the guilty, overturning laws, analyzing the "sick", etc.

Or, I may be wrong.

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162903, Ruined, Sep 28, 2005 06:39 AM
      162917, dp1, Sep 28, 2005 02:21 PM [Ruined]
      162921, orolan, Sep 28, 2005 04:17 PM
            163036, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 29, 2005 08:45 PM [Ruined]
      162950, joy1234, Sep 29, 2005 02:54 AM
      162965, rebel51, Sep 29, 2005 09:56 AM
            163037, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 29, 2005 08:49 PM [just a thought]
                  163086, rebel51, Sep 30, 2005 11:28 AM
                        163102, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 30, 2005 03:14 PM [rebel51]
                              163142, saintjimmy, Oct 01, 2005 06:38 AM
                                    163179, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 01, 2005 03:24 PM [saintjimmy]
                              163146, rebel51, Oct 01, 2005 11:48 AM
                                    163182, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 01, 2005 03:37 PM [rebel51]
                                    163254, 1dadof5, Oct 02, 2005 03:59 AM [rebel, StJ]
                              163315, Renunciation, Oct 02, 2005 11:31 PM
                                    163360, rebel51, Oct 03, 2005 02:00 PM
                        163449, Navigatr1, Oct 04, 2005 01:28 PM
                              163453, momhelpingbyherself, Oct 04, 2005 02:03 PM [navigatr1]
      163216, karaokedavid82, Oct 02, 2005 12:30 AM [It's Painful on Both Sides]
      163304, myoung, Oct 02, 2005 08:29 PM [ruined]
            163410, jenclink, Oct 03, 2005 09:27 PM
                  163451, Navigatr1, Oct 04, 2005 01:53 PM

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