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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Help me Help my wife
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Message 161838
Posted by 6an31
on Sep 17, 2005 04:28 AM | Also by 6an31
| Gender: Male,
Age Bracket: 21 - 29,
State: Utah,
Country: United States |
Hello, I am new to this forum and figured this would be the best place to get some help. Here is my story im just going to type so sorry about no punctuations and spelling and stuff anyway. When i first me my wife about 2 month into our relationship she told me about how her moms ex-boyfriend had sexually abused her. This went on for about 4 years and 3-4 times per week it included rape, sodomy, touching everything you can possible imagine this man did to her. I work in a prison and am around these types of people all day. most are pretty meek when it comes down too it. but he is very aggressive. My did not tell her mother what he was doing but said and I Quote "NAME said he loves me" name meaning the person that did this to her. Her mom blamed her for it and put her in counceling saying she has a crush on him. I am the only person she has ever told about this and It kills me the pain she goes though. I need to know the best way to help her. I feel that she needs to get into some kind of counceling but she wont becauese of the expirences she had before. I have tried to get her to turn this person in but even though she is 1500 miles from him she is still scared of what he will do to her. She is conviced that direct quote "he will take everthing I love away from me and leave me alone and miserable." Another reason that she wont do anything as far as turning him in is because it will give him satisfaction that her "got to her" and she doesnt want him to know how he affected her. Anyway please any advice on how to help and understand what she is going though will be very appriciated.
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161838, 6an31, Sep 17, 2005 04:28 AM
161843, youtoo, Sep 17, 2005 06:50 AM
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