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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): mother's confusion
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Message 155487
Posted by motherintears
on Jul 08, 2005 07:43 PM | Also by motherintears
| Gender: Female,
Age Bracket: 30 - 39,
State: Pennsylvania,
Country: United States |
Here's my story. Any advice or thoughts are welcomed
Last week I got the call from my brother that he caught my oldest son (12yrs) in the bedroom with his pants around his legs and over top my youngest son (5 yrs) and his pants down as well.
My brother went back downstairs instead of addressing the situation and that is when he called me. I immediately came but stopped at my mom's to call the local children welfare service. I had no experiences with this and didn't know which way to go. Since then I have beaten myself up not knowing if I had done the right thing. Without a doubt, I don't question getting my son help and protecting my other boys. But I have been wondering if he could have received the recieved the proper help through a regular therapist.
He's gonna be going for a mental health evaluation. And I expect that he will in an inpatient housing following reccommendations from the caseworker from everything I have been reading.
It's hard being the mother of the perputrator and the mother of the victims as well. (my 8yr son was sexually assulted as well.) I keep wondering where I went wrong.
I have faith and have been giving my oldest son all the love and support that he needs. He does have a lawyer, which isn't to beat the charges, just someone to look out for his best interest.
It's hard. I went from being the loving mother of three boys to having my oldest ripped out of my house. I'm scared for my oldest boy.
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155487, motherintears, Jul 08, 2005 07:43 PM
155498, dp1, Jul 08, 2005 10:35 PM
155530, 1dadof5, Jul 09, 2005 04:24 PM
155577, Scaye, Jul 09, 2005 06:50 PM
155596, dp1, Jul 09, 2005 08:51 PM
155615, 1dadof5, Jul 09, 2005 10:45 PM [dp1]
161102, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:42 AM
161676, kimbev, Sep 15, 2005 06:34 PM [what are some people thinking]
161713, motherintears, Sep 16, 2005 12:29 AM [kimbev]
161720, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 16, 2005 01:26 AM
155604, Silverthorne, Jul 09, 2005 09:38 PM [Welcome]
155627, Scaye, Jul 10, 2005 01:06 AM
155659, dp1, Jul 10, 2005 05:27 AM
155709, Scaye, Jul 10, 2005 07:43 PM
155728, dp1, Jul 11, 2005 12:41 AM [scaye]
155738, Scaye, Jul 11, 2005 06:47 AM
161105, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:50 AM
161104, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:46 AM
161163, dp1, Sep 11, 2005 05:32 AM
161344, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 12, 2005 07:37 PM
161413, dp1, Sep 13, 2005 05:25 PM [Mom]
161504, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 14, 2005 02:50 PM
161232, myoung, Sep 11, 2005 06:42 PM [did I miss something]
161345, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 12, 2005 07:45 PM
155680, motherintears, Jul 10, 2005 02:32 PM
155710, Scaye, Jul 10, 2005 07:45 PM
161106, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:52 AM
161196, motherintears, Sep 11, 2005 04:42 PM [momhelping]
155719, counsellor, Jul 10, 2005 09:12 PM [reporting]
155724, dp1, Jul 11, 2005 12:01 AM [Agreed]
155740, Scaye, Jul 11, 2005 06:59 AM
155780, rabbitreborn, Jul 11, 2005 06:06 PM
161108, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:56 AM
161107, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:54 AM
155739, Scaye, Jul 11, 2005 06:51 AM
161103, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 06:44 AM
155720, counsellor, Jul 10, 2005 09:13 PM
155727, dp1, Jul 11, 2005 12:37 AM
155729, 1dadof5, Jul 11, 2005 01:49 AM
160644, motherintears, Sep 05, 2005 04:13 PM [UPDATE]
160715, dp1, Sep 06, 2005 05:26 AM [Mom]
161109, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 07:00 AM
160775, deadmomwalking, Sep 06, 2005 07:42 PM
160808, saintjimmy, Sep 07, 2005 03:31 AM [confused ???]
160834, deadmomwalking, Sep 07, 2005 09:49 AM
160968, saintjimmy, Sep 08, 2005 05:41 PM
161110, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 10, 2005 07:02 AM
161826, saintjimmy, Sep 17, 2005 01:52 AM
161125, deadmomwalking, Sep 10, 2005 05:45 PM
161829, saintjimmy, Sep 17, 2005 02:09 AM
161191, motherintears, Sep 11, 2005 04:31 PM [saintjimmy]
161824, saintjimmy, Sep 17, 2005 01:49 AM
161845, motherintears, Sep 17, 2005 11:19 AM [saintjimmy]
160805, saintjimmy, Sep 07, 2005 03:22 AM [not an excuse?]
161011, 1dadof5, Sep 09, 2005 05:14 AM
161127, anti, Sep 10, 2005 07:21 PM [to:motherintears]
161192, motherintears, Sep 11, 2005 04:34 PM [anti]
161234, anti, Sep 11, 2005 06:44 PM [sorry...]
161347, momhelpingbyherself, Sep 12, 2005 07:57 PM
161375, anti, Sep 13, 2005 07:02 AM [thank you..]
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