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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): Family law
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Message 129274 (In Reply to Message 128887)
Posted by MrTruth
on Mar 29, 2004 05:34 AM | Also by MrTruth
| Gender: Male,
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That may be how they feel right now. Or is it? Is some of how you feel transferring to them? Are they trying to please you by stating the party line? You may not appreciate these questions, but they are valid. I abused my daughter, but my son still wanted contact with me. His mother was all over him like white on rice about it. There was a supervised contact plan put in place in the divorce decree, and when my ex moved out of state, she immediately blew that off and threatened my son with counseling.
Last year, he contacted me and had to do it behind his mother's back (and yes, the court said he could have whatever level of contact he wanted). He told his sister about having seen me, and she immediately wanted to see me after seven years. She was afraid to say anything to her mother about it. My daughter came to visit me for two weeks this past Christmas. Last week I helped her move to my state and she is now living with me and my new wife.
Granted, not all stories turn out this way, and there will be children (primary victim or otherwise) who truly do not want to have contact with their father. Let your children make up their own minds without you influencing them in a negative manner. Believe me, my ex vented on me with every fiber in her soul about how rotten I was, but it was not true, and my children knew it.
For what it's worth, I am sorry you have to go through something like this.
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Message 128887
Posted by anthony1978
on Mar 19, 2004 01:11 AM | Also by anthony1978
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128887, anthony1978, Mar 19, 2004 01:11 AM
128902, dp1, Mar 19, 2004 04:13 AM
128905, Silverthorne, Mar 19, 2004 05:50 AM
129045, anthony1978, Mar 23, 2004 05:19 PM
129096, dp1, Mar 24, 2004 06:19 PM [anthony1978]
129248, poetsdreamscape, Mar 27, 2004 09:41 AM [sorry]
129274, MrTruth, Mar 29, 2004 05:34 AM
130858, DoTheCrimeDoTheTime, Apr 20, 2004 02:03 AM [ anthony1978]
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