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Forum: Victims and Survivors Corner
Thread (Discussion): need to vent and understand
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Message 131333 (In Reply to Message 131249)
Posted by betsemes
on Apr 23, 2004 02:18 PM | Also by betsemes
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Hi again, please, don't call yourself "dead mom walking", your are pretty much alive and seeking help; you have demonstrated so pretty much. Those are self-defeating thoughts that cannot help you and will make your efforts for helping your daughter much more difficult.
>>>Thanks for the link. I am going to read more about it. I have been trying to convince my daughter to see a neighbour who is a healer and uses what appears to be similar methods, that is a western adaptation of eastern medicine. She finds blockages in the "chi" or body's energy flow and taps or massages gently on those spots or applies homeopathic remedies.>She believes the perp has left a piece of himself in my daughter, as least in my daughter's mind. Because he made my daughter perform oral sex on him she has a continuing sense of being "dirty" and "defiled". For example, when she went for counselling and examination and a sexual abuse medical clinic she asked if his DNA could "still be inside her" (this 5 years after the fact). The healer goes on soul journeys or dream journeys with the clients to find this injured parts of their souls. OK, I know this sounds incredibly hokey but I don't think it is the science that is important - it is the symbolism. In the case of damage to the soul or self, ritual and symbol can be more powerful healers than any meds or even counselling.
However, so far I haven't been able to convince my daughter to go. Partly it is her natural shyness, partly she has inherited her father's analytical mind and is a doubting Thomas but mostly she can't stand being touched
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Message 131249
Posted by deadmomwalking
on Apr 22, 2004 09:40 PM | Also by deadmomwalking
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126605, deadmomwalking, Jan 31, 2004 07:29 AM
126650, Silverthorne, Jan 31, 2004 11:31 PM [Hello DMW]
126812, deadmomwalking, Feb 03, 2004 05:39 AM
126999, PVulcan, Feb 08, 2004 01:43 PM [Hi Mom]
127741, Rachel, Feb 25, 2004 01:09 PM [If you need someone to talk to....]
127824, deadmomwalking, Feb 27, 2004 10:09 PM
127951, bess, Mar 02, 2004 12:17 PM
128039, deadmomwalking, Mar 04, 2004 10:01 AM
128107, bess, Mar 05, 2004 01:33 PM
128147, glasschicken50, Mar 06, 2004 01:39 PM [the power of prayer!]
128169, cathie, Mar 07, 2004 03:49 AM [deadmomwalking]
129147, tryingtosurvive, Mar 25, 2004 04:18 PM [I dont have a clue ....]
129149, tryingtosurvive, Mar 25, 2004 04:36 PM [just a ps]
129166, dp1, Mar 25, 2004 10:54 PM [TTS]
130538, thumper, Apr 16, 2004 07:47 PM [Your daughters story is my own]
130558, dp1, Apr 17, 2004 04:17 AM [thumper]
130565, deadmomwalking, Apr 17, 2004 08:00 AM [thumper]
130602, Silverthorne, Apr 18, 2004 03:30 AM [Thumper]
130539, Rejected
131206, betsemes, Apr 22, 2004 03:26 PM
131220, TGoodman, Apr 22, 2004 06:38 PM [To betsemes]
131249, deadmomwalking, Apr 22, 2004 09:40 PM
131333, betsemes, Apr 23, 2004 02:18 PM
131336, betsemes, Apr 23, 2004 02:56 PM
131353, steve, Apr 23, 2004 04:55 PM
131364, betsemes, Apr 23, 2004 05:18 PM
131375, steve, Apr 23, 2004 06:03 PM [Explanation of what happened ...]
131485, deadmomwalking, Apr 24, 2004 08:21 AM
131323, bess, Apr 23, 2004 07:57 AM [Shamans and other healers]
131486, deadmomwalking, Apr 24, 2004 08:25 AM
133583, greatdad53, May 14, 2004 02:20 AM [My daughter and I both feel your Pain!]
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