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Message 120517 (In Reply to Message 120510)

Posted by orolan on Oct 26, 2003 04:59 PM | Also by orolan

Gender: Male, Age Bracket: 40 - 49, State: N/A, Country: United States

LadyJane wrote:
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and then I have the rest of my life to be hated by my kids
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That is why you should tell them about his history and current situation. Who knows, one of them may come to the house and tell him he needs to move out.
How do you feel about throwing him out? Could you get a protection order in Arkansas without him committing violence against you?
Just a thought.

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Message 120510
Leaving would be a matter of only hours.

Posted by ladyjane on Oct 26, 2003 03:08 PM | Also by ladyjane

Gender: Female, Age Bracket: N/A, State: Arkansas, Country: United States

I could make a big stand right now, pack up my stuff and leave - but I'd have to come back in 15 minutes, sign on to my computer and do my work - I don't have a regular job, I'm a contractor, and I only am paid for the work I turn in.

Then I'd have to come in at 5:30 again and feed my horses.

I am just so dismayed.  It looks like nothing is going to happen to him unless I make it happen, and then I have the rest of my life to be hated by my kids.

It just doesn't seem fair to me that the police don't give a hoot about this and didn't come and drag his sorry self away in shackles.

It occurs to me that this is how people get killed - victim realizes he's being blown off, gets a gun or a baseball bat and takes care of things himself!

DH seems very subdued and worried, but hasn't taken steps himself to go straightaway and get some kind of "help" -- if there is such a thing.

I'm sorry.  I'm just so discouraged that I am going to have to uproot myself, drag out two computers, two printers, all my reference books, pay $700 for the board of two horses, $100 to have them hauled (it's not as if I can hire a teenage boy to come feed them while I'm gone!!!), pay for installation of three phone lines in somebody else's house and be without pay while I wait for the phone co. to do this, possibly losing accounts during the wait --

All because's he's lying low waiting to see if he gets away with this. I'm tired, and sick, and feel like just sitting down and weeping.

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120417, ladyjane, Oct 24, 2003 06:48 PM [This is a long story, sorry.]
      120418, steve, Oct 24, 2003 07:08 PM [Get counseling for yourself, stay strong]
      120419, tessa, Oct 24, 2003 07:46 PM [Please listen.]
      120420, tessa, Oct 24, 2003 07:51 PM [Sorry]
            120426, orolan, Oct 24, 2003 10:39 PM
            120431, PVulcan, Oct 24, 2003 11:17 PM
                  120435, SurvivorForever, Oct 25, 2003 12:49 AM [Lady]
      120436, dp1, Oct 25, 2003 01:22 AM [Call 911]
            120455, Silverthorne, Oct 25, 2003 03:57 AM [Call the cops]
      120459, myoung, Oct 25, 2003 05:01 AM [just a question, not a criticism]
            120464, steve, Oct 25, 2003 01:17 PM
                  120479, myoung, Oct 25, 2003 09:12 PM [oops, didn't even notice]
                        120480, ladyjane, Oct 25, 2003 10:50 PM [Not from CA - I must have goofed.]
                              120483, steve, Oct 25, 2003 11:26 PM [Leaving home may be temporary]
                                    120510, ladyjane, Oct 26, 2003 03:08 PM [Leaving would be a matter of ...]
                                          120517, orolan, Oct 26, 2003 04:59 PM
                              120557, myoung, Oct 27, 2003 12:51 PM [mixed bag]

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Message 120510Leaving would be a matter of only hours.

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Thread (Discussion): Married to a molester?

Message 120510
Leaving would be a matter of only hours.